Second Marriage

Wedding - Second Wedding
@Lucille7 (509)
South Africa
May 12, 2007 9:07am CST
I was just sitting browsing the web looking to see what wedding dresses there on now a days... I was married for the first time in 2001 and then last year on 26 May i got divorced. Now my ex husband and I have been working on the problems that lead to us getting divorced and things are going really well and we are discussing getting re-married next year 24 September. However, I had a very simple wedding on my first wedding - nothning too fancy at it was a home wedding in Cape Town... Now I am not too sure what to do for this wedding? I am not sure what I should wear to begin with and I think it will be a bigger wedding than our first just because all our friends are here and will not have to come all the way down to Cape Town like the first time... So I need some advise... Desperately because I am not sure where to begin... Anybody that can assist... please do....???
2 responses
bindishah
@bindishah (2062)
• India
15 May 07
Well..first of all let me congratulate you..it is great that you and your ex are working things out. Since the first time, you guys had a small wedding id say go all out in this once. I believe marriage is beautiful ceremony to be shared by all. You are getting an opportunity to do this the right way again.
Lucille7
@Lucille7 (509)
• South Africa
15 May 07
Thank you so much friend... this means alot and I appreciate it so much... I guess you have a point in going all out and making this even more special and memorable... Thanks for the advice...
kathy77
@kathy77 (7486)
• Australia
13 May 07
Hi Lucille, Oh that is wonderful news I am so happy for you that I hope and pray that everything works out for you with your ex husband sometimes we do not realize what eithr of us do to tear a marriage apart I have not re married my ex but I did have a long separation from my former husband and know what we both did wrong and have since come back together and lot more better than our earlier married days. I would love to be able to help you but I do not know what kind of dress you really would prefer, or what colour but I do hope that you find something that really takes your fancy.
Lucille7
@Lucille7 (509)
• South Africa
13 May 07
Hi Kathy! Thank you so much... it is a great thing that has started to happen and I am grateful for your love and support in this... I believe that one has greater success in making a second marriage work when you re-marry your ex and solve your differences. I am really grateful for this... I am not sure on what colour or dress or whatever, and this is so confusing to me... I am blonde, blue eyes, and pale complexion... and worst of all I am not sure what the do's and dont's are of a second wedding... I am really confused about it all. But thank you so much for your response... I really appreciate it very much. Take care until we chat again.