how do you deal with a breakoff?

someone should move on... although when i was in that situation, i had give it another try and it succeded. but you should be sure enough that he/she is serious on coming back to you. everyone are ought to commit mistakes, forgive and forget and start your life together. but if you feel you cant be happy going back with that person and you can trust anymore, then you should move on... it just depend on the reason for your breakup.

I'd say move on. The relationship ended for a reason and there are billions of people out there so I firmly believe that if it does not work out with that person then he/she did you a favor by allowing you to meet someone better!! I have been cheated on and broken up with and he tried to get back with me...no, thanks....I would never be with someone who can betray my trust like that (again!)- life is too short, we only get one chance at it so there are too many others to meet that will make you happy and that are worth your time!!!!!