Eye contact: Staring method
By touchnshine
@touchnshine (2821)
India
May 12, 2007 11:32am CST
What's your method of checking out involving eye contact when you're attracted to someone, whether you know them or not.
1.) One casual glance that almost seems like you don't notice them
2.) Stare out of the corner of your eye only (periperal vision)
3.) Blatantly stare with a smile
4.) Blatantly stare with a blank facial expression 5.) Very flirtatious, suggestive staring
6.) Other?
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9 responses
@little_angel (2458)
• Australia
16 May 07
Hello touchnshine
I always do eye contact with someone i love and if i talking with someone. There is the way that i am concern with what they said.
And if i use eye contact with my boyfriend i will called love eye, very bright and happy eyes.
We can use different way to different person.
thank you for share this method with me
God bless you
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@obukohwo (301)
• Nigeria
16 May 07
I will simply stare at the person i am attracted to directly for some time and if possible smile sofly.
@cosmopolitan (1263)
• India
15 May 07
I just glance at people that are beautiful or handsome.If someone looks harsh or arrogant I just give a 'don't care look' so that I don't want myself take over by them.If somebody looks pleasant or affable I use to make a passive smile at them even if I don't know them.
@bindishah (2062)
• India
15 May 07
If i want to show someone that i find them attractive and am interested in them, i usually stare for a few seconds with a small smile, then look away and then stare again. I usually find them staring at me when I look away and then look back. This kind shows that you are both interested and also makes you look shy.
@mdchennai (2129)
• India
14 May 07
Well, my look at girls depends upon their look. If suppose i find some girl who looks great, then i will give a glance from a long shot and thats it, i wont look at her when i come closer. Whereas in other cases, i look at them in such a way that it is just a casual look or at sometimes without their knowledge. I havent smiled at any unknown girl just because she looks good and i dont even like to hang around girls for their beauty!
@asahibza (388)
• Canada
12 May 07
It is likely to get attracted to some one instantaneously. It has happened with me in the past and happens with me in the present. I think this is but natural.
I would like to establish direct eye contact first. I would also like to give a friendly smile. If there is any positive response, I would like to have a small chat.
This happened with me last week. I went to a restaurant in downtown. When I was having a drink, I saw some one quite attrative. I liked the way the person was talking and smiling. The person did not notice me first. I looked directly in that person's eyes.
After two attempts, the person also looked at me and then disappeared. When re-appeared, I smiled and the person smiled. I was surprsed when the person approached me and said hello. We spent 30 minutes together over a drink. Unbelievable but true! You never know.
@asahibza (388)
• Canada
13 May 07
This is sensitive. It is very hard to have perfect relationship. This involves sentiments, tastes, interests, preferences, attitudes etc. Very few are blessed to have a smooth relationship.
I think sentimental harmony is of prime importance in any type of relationship. This depends to a considerable extent on intellectual parity as well.
A perfect relationship is also dependent upon give and take. There has to be an element of understanding, tolerance, logic and selflessness.
Blessed are those who have a blisfull friendship, togetherness and mutual respect. These are the true moments of life to be remembered and cherished.
@asahibza (388)
• Canada
12 May 07
It is likely that one gets attracted to some one else instantaneously. It has happened with me in the past and happens in the present. I think this is but natural.
I would like to establish direct eye contact first. Then I would like to give a friendly smile. If there is any positive response, I would like to have a small chat.
This happened with me only last week. I went to a restaurant in downtown. When I was having a drink, I saw someone who held me attention. I liked the way the person was talking, making gestures and talking. The person did not notice me first. I looked directly in tat person's eyes.
After two attempts, the person also looked at me and then disappeared. After the person re-appeared, I smiled. The person also smiled in response. I was surprised when the person approached me and said hello. We spent about 35 minutes together over a drink. Unbelievable but true! You never know. Hopefully I will be back there at the same time next week.
@PsychoDude (2013)
• Netherlands
12 May 07
For me it always tended to differ from time to time, depending on how the girl looked. One some a quick glance before stepping over after noticing her looking back in example whilst with others more or less look at them with a smile whilst not making any move making them come over to you instead.