i think now he does not love me anymore....i am broke.help me

I think you should forget him completely, don't call him, don't go to his house, don't approach him - in short, leave him alone. If you are wrong and he does in fact have an interest in you, he will approach you. Regardless of whether or not he is romantically interested in you, the way he is treating you is wrong and shows that he is not behaving very well. For the sake of your own self respect and dignity, forget this guy.

Hey there...i think you should not show to this guy how interested and inlove you are to him. If he doesnt want u then be it. I will not push myself to him if i were u. But it's your decision...it's your life..but being a girl, a woman, we should leave a little respects to ourselves. If you really feel that he don't want to talk to you, then leave it. IT really hurt I know but guys are like that, they will let the girl love them and if you're totally hooked, then they will leave you. I'm not saying ALL the guys are like that but MOST of them are. Take care girl...

i am really sorry for the way you are feeling.the best way is to sit it out and spaeak out what you have in your mind.speak to him and find out what is wrong and if he is really not interested there is no use crying over spilt milk,you'll just have to move on.i know it is not easy especially when you are in love but you need to be practical enough and accept the truth as it is.i hope things get better for you.all the best buddy.

You know what they say; "there's plenty more fish where that one came from". Although you might not want to go back to the same pond to catch one, if you know what I mean! If he is not interested don't forse the issue. You may be forsing something that wasn't worth the fight in the first place but by the time you find out it might be to late. So relax, be your self and live your life your way. Follow your path in life and the mate that suits you best will surely be on it some where and you will fit like a glove. It will be worth it when it happens so don't worry.

I can advice to you is that ask him directly, confront him why suddenly he became so cold to you what happen. Did you do something wrong to her or what. Did he found someone that's why he is like that to you. For me its your right to ask him because he is still your boyfriend and you have the right to know the truth whether it will break your heart at least you know the reason why he is being cold to you. And also so that the questions that bothers you will be solve.

i think once you both have to meet and solve the problem what happened why. so firstly think about the problem and sort out because when u dont know about the problem the ho do you sort out the problem so please meet first

Well the way this guy is behaving it is very clear that it was only an infatuation. But before deciding for anything once try to meet him and make things clear and also tell that you love him a lot and then see if he reciprocates or not.Otherwise life is for moving ahead not staying at a place.

I am very sorry to hear that and this kind of situation is very hard to hear advice about. Normally I would say talk to him about it, but it doesn't sound like that is going to work. I hate to say it, but I think you are right and it sounds like he has already moved on. Heartbreak is something that all of us go through at one time or another and its not easy to do, but the best you can do for yourself is to move on with your life, have fun, spend time with friends but stop crying over this guy as if he is behaving like that then he isn't worth a single one of your tears. I think in time you will realise what a jerk he is and find someone better. I know that happened to me and I think that I had a lucky escape from that guy and I found someone else and have been happily married for 7 years now. Good luck

that's really sad.. been through that before, i mean, i think tat is true for most women.. hehehe guess, you get over with him.. dont entertain your feelings anymore, it will only remind you of your feelings for him.. go out with your friends and move on.. there is no use holding on to that relatiosnhip.. and wishful thinking isnt advisable too.. forget about hoping that both of you will still work, because it will only crush you..and hurt you even more especially when you will know that you are nothing to him.. stop crying for somebody who doesnt deserve your tears! smile.. be happy.. live life!:)

I can truly relate to you. I know all to well about being in love with someone who does not seen to feel the same way you feel. I basically lived my life waiting and hoping that one day this guy will care about me the way I cared about him. After about 6 months of trying to get this guy I thaugth I succeeded he finally agreed to go out with me and to make a long story short he completely took advantage of me. I was spending so much money on trying to keep him into me on beauty and on him. My father told me that there power in rejection You cannot change the heart of a Man if his heart is not in it in the beginning than it NEVER will be. I did not beleive him at first because he is old. He says you can change a women's heart this is true because sometimes we dont like a Man atfirst then he does things to impress us then we learn to love him. He warned me that persuing a Man after rejection can put m,e up for him to take advantage of me and boy do I wish I wouldd have listened to my Dad back then I am still paying for that mistake 5 years ago with my credit debt. The guy left me for a girl who did not presue him at all she wasnt even into him atfirst. They say Men like a challenge. Goood Luck and stay strong. A better man will come along dont waste your time you are worth more.

Why care for someone who doesnt care for u? Cherish urself... I mean: a person who makes u cry doesnt deserves his attention at all... someone who dun care dun deserve ur care either...

archiee,don't crying.if that guy don't love you any more.maybe he have his reason,maybe he is only playboy(I really think not.),you should thinking about him,do the things you like,try to forget the sad story.you will have a long way to go,I think one thing most important ,that is be happy~although forget a person isn't a easy thing,but time is the best medicine.

you love him right? then keep loving him. i know nothing hurts like love. But now what you could do is love him,love him a lot. And hope for a day on which he come for you. he cant discard you. all the best.

you better ask him whats the real score...if he doesnt love you anymore, what's the reason for cyring? he is not worth your tears...

Why don't you talk to him heart to heart so you will know his intention to you does he really loves you ask him question that bothers you so much. I think communication is the best thing you can do. And if you find it that what you think is right well he doe'st deserve your love for him. My only advise to you is controlled yur self try to learned your feelings, if you continue to love him then you must accept the feeling of hurt and cries everytime he ignores you. You can only decides what best for you and take it easy. Gudluck.

Now, now, archiee, do not think like the world is gonna end now because he do not love you. You can do nothing about it if he do not love you anymore. You are still young. I know there is a lot of guys who will fall for you. I know you are beautiful archiee, and you have your future. If you are crying now because you still love him, then cry as you must. Cry for one day or cry for two days if you must, and when you stop crying, then stop loving him.