Would you still choose your husband?
By toplen
@toplen (335)
Philippines
10 responses
@ravinskye (8237)
• United States
13 May 07
If I were given the chance...well right now I would say no. Right now I'm pregnant with his 3rd child and we got in a huge fight yesterday. He complains he wants "free" time, but I'm expected to stay home all the time. I chose to be a stay at home mom which i thought he supported, but now i get guilt tripped for it all the time. I thought over time in our marriage he would grow to think of me as a best friend and wife and talk to me..after 6 years he still can't tell me what he's really thinking. Mothers day and he makes me regret having kids, like i trapped him into something he didn't want :(
@Michele21 (3093)
• United States
13 May 07
I am so sorry your hubby is being a jerk!! Hopefully it will get better and tomorrow he will realize how lucky he is to have you and your kids in his life!! Just be good for your kids and hopefully he will get a clue soon that being a stay-at-home mom is ghard work, especially when you are pregnant!!
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@toplen (335)
• Philippines
14 May 07
OH, I know how you feel. Sometimes when we fight, I tend to really hate him for awhile but when we make up, everything is like a bed of roses again. I hope things will be ok for you and your husband tomorrow...everyday is a Mother's day anyways :) Happy Mom's day :)
@bruxedo (773)
• France
13 May 07
Very hard situation. And not having a job turns everything much more difficult.. I think. you can't go out of your home for a while and make him feel whats his life without you. Perhaps he would think diferently after some time. But this is only what I think right now and not being envolved in the situation.. I really don't know if I could do it..
@toplen (335)
• Philippines
16 May 07
oh, definitely yes. Being together for 8 years, i think we're inseparable, but God only knows that's why i'm always praying that He'll keep us together forever. Funny thing is, I asked my husband this question b4 i posted it here. we both have the same answers :) thanks for responding :)
@Anakata2007 (1785)
• Canada
14 May 07
to be honest I'm not sure. I mean my husband is the best person I'v ever met, but things have happenned since we were married that have caused me to question whether or not we are meant for each other. Nothing bad on his part but I have so far shown that my body is unable to produce a child, and he really wanted kids. That's a big thing. So sometimes I think "If I had known this, I would never have married him". It's hard to go through your whole life thinking and knowing that you let someone down, especially when it's the person you love the most in the whole world.
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@toplen (335)
• Philippines
14 May 07
Awww.. I want you to know that we're undergoing the same test in life. My husband and I have been married for 8+ years and we still don't have a child. I have the problem coz of my hormonal imbalance and uterine hyperplasia. My husband has been so understanding about my situation. It helps that his brothers have sons and daughters coz he gets to borrow and play with them. Sometimes, when he gets tired of playing with them, he tells me that he's happy with how things are going with us coz he can't stand being around with kids for a long time. ALthough he wants to have kids, he isn't putting pressure on me coz we're still enjoying our time together. I tell him that he's my baby and I'm his. Don't be too harsh on yourself, it isn't your fault and i'm sure your husband understands you too. Don't put this in the middle of your marriage instead try to enjoy your time together, travel together, go to the mall together, eat out...stuff like those that will put your mind away from your present situation. I'm sure we will have a child someday soon....there is a time for everything and God has his own plans for us :)
@nicolecab (923)
• United States
14 May 07
I know I would do everything the same. My husband and I have a beautiful baby boy and I could not imagine not haveing him in my life!! Yeah my husband and I have our rough spots but we push through them and we always seem to come out closer together and a much stronger couple!!
@nicolecab (923)
• United States
15 May 07
yes, never give up unless you have tried everything you possibly can. good luck!!!
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@mrsbrian (1949)
• United States
13 May 07
I sure would I have been so happy with my husband I must say I was married before for 30 years and that one I would not redo
I would marry him again and again,Im just sad that I didnt meet him long ago,but hey we learn from our mistakes and Im glad I got it right the second time around
@mamasan34 (6518)
• United States
13 May 07
Well, The Rock is not available so yes, I would definitely choose my current husband to be in my life. I don't think I can see myself wtih anyone else. We just fit each other. It is like we understand each other's language while everyone else speaks a different version. LOL
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@pikaboo1210 (10)
• Philippines
14 May 07
I will definitely choose my husband. I believe that there is no accidents in life. that this is God's plan for me.
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