Happy Mothers Day to all who have lost their Mother.

I lost my mom 12 years ago. Today I spent working..and in the midst of tryng to keep busy, I spent part of today mourning for her still. She taught me so very much, yet let me make my own mistakes. She was a woman who reached out to so many and would not accept any acknowledgement or awards for all she did...it was her belief that it was her responsibility to help others. I know how you feel. Somedays I would just like to have her back for 15 minutesjust to talk or to go out for lunch just one more time. She was my mom, my best friend and the greatest grandmother to my kids that anyone could have. Today I miss you mom! Happy Mother's day to you...even in your grief.

Hi cipher I know the feeling. The first couple of years when my mom passed were really hard too. I couldnt go anywhere where people were celebrating and having a good time. Its been 8 years now Im just starting to go to mothers day events. I went to one yesterday and it was at my familys. We also celebrated my aunts birthday. I promise you it will get easier. And dont worry about people being mad at you because you didnt attend the partys. Im sure they will understand. Take care and hugs to you!

We are on the same shoes cipher. My mom also passed away 2 years ago and I can just greet her in my prayers. I still do remember my mom not only on Mothers Day but always. I remember her birthday, wed anniversary and offered prayers and mass in the church. I miss her. I sent greetings to friends, family and inlaws who are mothers. I received greeting from friends, co-workers, husband and family this day. My young son also greeted me and I appreciated all of them for this especial day for mothers.

My condolences for your loss. I posted a similar discussion regarding how hard today is for me.

It was just heartbreaking to read about your loss. I'm so sorry. Never having lost a parent I can't begin to imagine what you're going through. I hope people around you understand that on this particular day you are not in a cheerful mood and that it does not mean that you disrespect your mother in law. They must give you the space you need. I hope you feel better soon.