Do you ask before putting people on your friends list?

United States
May 13, 2007 4:06pm CST
I always ask before I do but I have seen my husband put them on our friends list without asking,I asked him why and he said because they were a good partner in a card game. What do you do and why? Would you be upset if someone added you without asking?
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@melanie652 (2524)
• United States
30 May 07
Yes, I do usually ask. I've met some nice people on pogo. Usually it's a partner in a card game or something like that. Bad part is I add people and then forget which one they are I have so many on my friends list. Haven't quite figured out what I should do about that yet. If someone added me without asking, I wouldn't know it. Maybe if they were following me around or something like that, I might notice. That would upset me! Otherwise, no it would not. It doesn't bother me if someone added me as a friend without asking.
• United States
30 May 07
True you wouldn't know it unless you noticed them following you. I also don't know how to maange all the friends,some of them I forget why I put them on until they talk to me again,thanks.
@KissThis (3003)
• United States
17 May 07
To be honest with you I never really thought about it. I have had people ask me if it is alright to add me and I say sure go ahead. While I have had others just add me. I figure there was something that they liked about me so why not. Personally, I don't ask anyone nor do I add anyone either. I am usually just there to play games so I don't pay much attention to anything else.
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• United States
18 May 07
Lol yea sometimes I just don't care I'm too into the games,thanks
@pelo26 (1552)
• Philippines
13 May 07
You mean here in mylot? Can we add friends without asking first? Aren't we suppose to make a friend request first and ask permission from people before we can add them as friends? How does your hubby do it?
• United States
14 May 07
No this dicussion is about pogo.com,look at the tags that might help you see,sorry to confuse you.
@tinamwhite (3252)
• United States
14 May 07
I do not think I would be upset....necessarily...but I would wonder why if we were "friends" they did not feel it a courtesy to at least say "Hey, I added you to my friend's list".... Here on myLot, I have asked a few people to be on my friend's list and also had a few people request to be added....either way works..I guess....I like the versatility of the different people and have grown very attached to many of ya'll..
• United States
14 May 07
Oh thank you you are so kind. I don't mind too much either if someone puts me on their friends list without asking,if it's someone I talk with alot. Thanks
• United States
15 May 07
I always ask first. I think it is being polite and I don't think I would appreciate it much if someone added me to theirs without asking first. If they consider you a friend they should be nice enough to ask you before they add you to their list.
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• United States
15 May 07
Right I agree I always try to be polite.Thanks