how to succeed in marrige?

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We have every reason to believe that most couples enter wedlock because they love each other and they want to spend the rest of their lives together.sadly, however the dream of a happy marriage often proves to be just that-dream. Upon waking up to reality, many have said that they have married too soon or married the wrong person or both. Why do some marriages fail? "The reason is lack of preparation," says the author of a book about courtship. She adds, "as I deal with couples in the throes of marital distress two feelings engulf me-compassion and anger. I feel Compassion because they have not discovered their dreams for a mutully satisfying relationship. I feel anger because of their ignorance regarding the complexity of the task." Indeed many enter marriage with little or no idea of how to make it succeed. Yet this is hardly surprising. One educator observed." How many of our youth go through college studying about the behaviour of rats and lizards, but failed to learned about the behaviour of two people called husband and wife?" Are you thinking about marriage-either about a possible future marriage or about that marriage you are in now? If so, you should be aware that a real-life relationship is far different from that depicted in movies, on television shows and in romance novels. At the same time the marriage of two matured people who are truly in love may be considered a blessing from God.(Proverbs 18:22;19:14)