are computers getting in your way of your love life?
By tictactams
@tictactams (135)
Australia
May 14, 2007 2:44am CST
my partner takes his laptop to bed with him instead of cuddle up watchin a movie together or getting romantic he will have his laptop in bed surfin ebay or doing paper once i have fallin asleep later he wakes me up to make sure he get his if you get my drift its like the computer taken over his life he always on it if not at work
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@sweetsue (758)
• Philippines
14 May 07
At some point yes. There was a time when my boyfriend called me and asked me to visit his place and I declined and told him that I am working on something. He was like, are you doing some creepy stuff again in your computer? and so as he always caught me in it, I just answered "yes". And he was like are you crazy? and I answered back "yes I am" and he hung up. Hehehe..But later that night, I realized it was my mistake and so I had decided to come to his place.
Internet is so addictive that sometimes I can't help myself with it.
@sassinqueen (710)
• United States
14 May 07
Nope. I don't have a love life. But, I understand that this is becoming a problem and an obsession for some. I owuld be offended. This person may not be interested in anyone but themselves. Time has to always be set aside for love ones and children. It's called making them a priority in your life.
@tictactams (135)
• Australia
14 May 07
he had started becoming that way were he was always on the computers doing work or surfing ebay he got so bad that he would have our bubs in one arm feedin him his bottle and laptop in the other but i had enough the last few days putting his business and being lazy first before his family i threatin to leave cause its not the life i want so today he has changed a bit but will see how much he changes and if it will last
@brendalee (6082)
• United States
14 May 07
If you ask my boyfriend this question, he would say yes. he is always saying that I care more about the computer than him. He always jokes about it with me. I do find time to be with him, so I think computer time and your love life can fixed if both sides are willing to try. Maybe you can talk him into having special time with you before he gets on the computer.
@mrsbrian (1949)
• United States
14 May 07
Hello, Im sure if i allowed it my husband would also take his laptop to bed,but really we are both on the internet the same so if we wantt to do something together we both have to get off the internet. I beliee i would draw the line with him wakeing me up after I had fallen asleep.
Good luck.
@sweetsue (758)
• Philippines
14 May 07
At some point, yes. There was a time when I am off from work and my boyfriend called me and asked me if I could visit his place and I declined. And he said, you got no work what are you up to. I said I am working on my computer. And he was like, doing some creepy stuff again? what are you crazy? and I answered him "yes I am!". He hung up.hehe..But later that day, I decided and still went to his place.
Internet/computer is so addictive.Sometimes, I can't help myself with it.
