what would you do if someone you really love wants to leave you for good?

@zamm13 (363)
Philippines
May 14, 2007 3:56am CST
what would you do if you really love someone and she/he wants to leave you? You have done your part in convincing or persuading her/him to stay. But no, you cannot change her/his mind, she/he has already decided. She/he wants you out, out of her/his life forever. Noe tell me, what would you do?
3 people like this
8 responses
• Indonesia
14 May 07
This something hard, but I would respect his choice of leaving me as long as he told me the truth and the reason is for our own good. There is no point to force him to stay with me, especially when he already decided to leave me. I dont want to stay in a relationship where he might not love me anymore. Better let him go, and I will dealing with the broken heart in my own way..
2 people like this
@zamm13 (363)
• Philippines
17 May 07
Yeah acceptance is the key, thanks for replying.
• Philippines
14 May 07
Its really a big problem. Its really hard to decide. But when hat time comes, I will set him free. Because I believe that if you really love a person, you will give him all he wants just to make him happy even if it means to broke your heart. You will going to set him free because true love means is not selfish.
1 person likes this
@zamm13 (363)
• Philippines
17 May 07
well said thank you very much
@makaira (1158)
• Philippines
14 May 07
i'll do what he wants... ill leave him alone and be gone with his life. it would not be fair for the two of us if i keep on asking for him to change his mind if he really doesnt want too. so let it be. it's hard at first, but you just have to accept that there are some things that you can't control, so let it be. cheers!
1 person likes this
@zamm13 (363)
• Philippines
17 May 07
thanks for the cheering me up, i remember the lyrics of one the beatles song here it is "let it be, let it be, whisper words of wisdom, let it be" ;p
@munhozmib (3836)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
18 May 07
Woa, that would be too dramatic. If the person wants me out of his life? Then, I'd just chase this person. One day, one of us would have to give up. Or I'd give up chasing her, or she'd give up running from me. I'm not an easy quitter, it would take me years to give up... So I think she'd give up first. Just do that: run after the person you love.
@zamm13 (363)
• Philippines
19 May 07
Quitters never win huh? But what if she really doesnt want you anymore? Would it be just a waste of your time?
@munhozmib (3836)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
29 May 07
Is that the person that you want to be with for your whole life? If so, then it's not a waste of time. Try, try and try. I am doing it right now. I hope I can manage to do it. Everyone said it was impossible. If I make it, it'll be a lesson of life to everyone and me too!
• Philippines
14 May 07
Let go. Move on it's not the end of the world. There is life after any failed relationship.
1 person likes this
@zamm13 (363)
• Philippines
17 May 07
life must go on.. the trick is to keep breathing..
@Gorgeous24 (1091)
• United States
15 May 07
I think in this situation there is only one thing to do and that is to respect there descision. If you say you have tried everything to convince them to stay with no prevail then its only best if you leave. Feelings change all the time..one minute you love somebody and the next you dont you just have to be cautious who you choose to give your heart too.
@zamm13 (363)
• Philippines
17 May 07
i respect her decision, time to let her go.. "giving my reason but as you look away i can see a tear roll down your face that's when you turned and said to me i don't care babe who's right or wrong i just don't love you no more"
@laylac (10)
• Philippines
29 May 07
it happened to me... not only once but thrice... we have to go on separate ways because it is the best thing to do. i dont have any choice but to let him. and i did it out of great love. sad but true that if we really love someone we dont have to deprive him the joy of being happy even if his definition of happiness means that we're not a part of it.
• Philippines
20 May 07
will you have to let her go. if you really for each other no matter what happen your path will meet again and you will both realize that you really love each other.