Have you ever been in a situation where..........

@syain1972 (1011)
Singapore
May 14, 2007 7:15am CST
You've helped this supposedly close friend and in the end, you are the one that is being labelled as a baddie by that same person? Ironic isn't it? I am in this situation right now. I've gone all out to help this person and have gone through a lot of difficulties in trying to help this person, but in the end, they blame us for all their trouble. I am dashed, heart broken, completely mad and utterly flabbergasted... At this moment, It's so blinking painful.... I am always a sucker for sob story.... It's like I am a dustbin for their problems and someone to put the blame on.... Sucks!!:
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@kelly60 (4547)
• United States
14 May 07
I have a pair of friends who have done that to me... well I guess I should say that I thought they were my friends. I have done everything I could for them and helped them out in many ways for many years, only to be treated like dirt in the end. Now the has ended painfully.
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@syain1972 (1011)
• Singapore
15 May 07
True. It is rather painful, knowing that we've helped them and we ended up being treated like dirt.... I am still trying to get over it....It's only been a few days....Sigh
@syain1972 (1011)
• Singapore
15 May 07
Thank you for your kind response!
@niang03 (147)
• China
14 May 07
Well..i feel sad to read your story...well,make it as experience for you..don't be get mad,down or even blame your self..at least,you know that you a bit mature from him/her..they blame you maybe they didn't satisfied for what you've done..i also had experience about that...just concern to what you've done to help them..at least you did your best..
@syain1972 (1011)
• Singapore
15 May 07
Thank you for your kind response. I am still trying to digest my feelings right now.. and you're right, we've done our best!!
@noyida (795)
• Singapore
15 May 07
Well...I'm sorry to hear that you got into this stage, dear. It's more pain cause the one that we helped is someone we regard as close friend. Take no heart. What you had done and helped is your best deed. Only Allah will pay you. Let the matter be for others to judge. Don't say anything bad about them so called close friend of yours. Eventually people will see, insyallah. Take it as a lesson though. Never to be nice or help this friend anymore. I had been thru more often that you..but being me, I never really learnt my lesson... I think I'm naturally a helper to others even I never hope for anything in return yet get always mark as the bad one. Isn't life is Strange? Be postitive, perhaps this is what ALLAH want us to see..who is we thought as real friend but yet they are not through all this incident. Ada hikmah di sebaliknya. Sabar ya! Sesungguhnya ALLAH maha besar dan doalah supaya di berikan Keadilan. Be positive, dont let other control your emotion. If they are not happy or badmouth you, let them be..the important thing is for you to have a clear heart, clear mind and also clear conscience. Insyallah, Allah will guide you always. Be blessed always.
@syain1972 (1011)
• Singapore
15 May 07
Thank you Noyida for your advise. Insya'Allah.... I'll get through this. I think being a PISCES does mold one's character to be always sacrificing for people but in return, we are the baddie..... I think I am a great sucker for sob stories. I can never really tell what people think about us. I think being PISCES I am utterly sensitive and psychic. Even before this incident takes place, something inside me had been telling me to be more wary but I just don't listen to my inner being. Now, dah terkena... Apa boleh buat cuma hati sedang pedih sekali.... Hanya Allah sahaja yang tahu!!