i am hurting so much.. need some advice..
By lloydbelleza
@lloydbelleza (1227)
Philippines
May 14, 2007 12:54pm CST
now, i only love one. and i gave her all my love. i made so much effort. but only this afternoon, i heard that she has someone else.. she is not my gf and that made me someone who doesnt have the right. but it hurts me alot. i build my dreams and future with her. and i dont know if i can love again.. i love her so much..
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@tallpaulno44a (1574)
• United States
14 May 07
You may not believe it right now, but the pain will lessen as time goes ny until it is just a memory. For now, surround yourself with good friends and pleasant activities. try not to be alone so much with your thoughts. In a few days or a couple of weeks you'll feel much better. in the meantime, take care of yourself.
"This, too, shall pass."
Good luck to you.
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@lloydbelleza (1227)
• Philippines
14 May 07
thank u very much.. i have never imagined my future without her.. i hope ill be ok soon. thanks a lot.. im sorry if i do act so immature..
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@tallpaulno44a (1574)
• United States
14 May 07
Don't worry about it Lloyd. There are very few people in the world who have not gone through this same experience.
@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
14 May 07
Since she is not your gf she has the right to be with someone else, but i do understand that it hurts. Have u tried to tell her how you feel though, she might be able to feel the same. Sometimes in life we need to take the risk of rejection to win love =)
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@lloydbelleza (1227)
• Philippines
14 May 07
actually we are very good friends.. and she always tries to tell me that she doesnt want to hurt me.. maybe we are just too safe.. we dont want to ruin our friendship by crossing the line.. i really dont know.. all i know now is that my heart bleeds alot..
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@ydnac22 (802)
• Philippines
14 May 07
I feel for you but you have to understand also that your friend needs to find her match.Your're still too young and there are lots of girls around.I knew its hard to take this words of mine right now but as time goes by you will realise that life is wonderful and there are plenty of girls out there who will make your heart beat again.I have already lost my very special some one before.Our relationship last for more than 3 years.I also uttered those words you're saying right now,"Can't imagine my future without him!" but after many years.. see I'm happy now and inspired again facing my future..
Life must go on.Bear in mind that everything happens with a good purpose.If God closes the door He opens the window.Just keep going.. somewhere along the road you will meet you're soulmate and what your experiencing right now will be just a memory.Dont just stay at home suffering for the pain cause its like punishing your self.Go out with your friends,try to make your self busy!
Good luck to you!
@ydnac22 (802)
• Philippines
16 May 07
loyd, I feel so flattered for giving me the best response.Thank you so much!..I'll pray for you that you will recover soon.I'm hope that once surpassed this I will see you here in mylot inspiring and lifting up the people whos suffering from heart pains.Believe me it's really nice to feel like a survivor so pls help your self to stand up now and show to them that your a brave young man!
I'm proud you!You can do it!
Stay GOOD! GOd bless always!
@lloydbelleza (1227)
• Philippines
15 May 07
thank u very much... its good to hear these words from someone who experienced it. thank u.. i just have to face the truth and be happy of what i have today..=) u really helped me alot..
@lloydbelleza (1227)
• Philippines
16 May 07
i gave u the best response because it really helped me realize a lot of things. i really pray that someday ill be a person who can lighten up someone's life by my responses to their discussions..
i am also happy because u give importance to my discussion and appreciated the fact that i made u as the person who gave the best person.. thank u..
God Bless u too..
@Superfluous (284)
• Philippines
7 Jun 07
She's not your gf so its not her fault she has someone else. You'll move on soon. Just be honest of how you feel. Don't try to deny it. Just be real. :)
