dying in your sleep
By brand4less
@brand4less (1061)
Indonesia
May 15, 2007 7:42am CST
my mom called me today and she told me that an old woman neighbour next to her passed away peacefully in her sleep.how do people know that dying in your sleep is peaceful?i mean no one has ever come back to tell us that it is.i'm wondering this because my grandpa also passed away in his sleep.i let my mind wander and i am wondering if it is really peaceful.
i know this a bit weird but i would like to know everyone thoughts on it..
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9 responses
@Woodpigeon (3710)
• Ireland
15 May 07
I think in that department yo can tell by the look on their faces. People that have had a heart attack might be frozen in a pained grimace. I have seen that, and even though they were in their beds and asleep when it happened, they were clearly woken, and it was not peaceful.
On the other hand if they just slowly wind down and their breathing becomes mor shallow until it stops, I expect it would be evry peaceful and quiet. I hope that was the case for your grandpa.
@Betso221 (1699)
• India
16 May 07
I think that's the best way possibly enyone can dye and there can be no other way to die. I myself would love to die in my sleep, won't know also when did i die or what happend. It will be so different. But i feel that's the best possible way enyone can die.
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@brand4less (1061)
• Indonesia
16 May 07
i'm sure that there are many unpeaceful ways to go and that we could all make ourselves sick discussing them..
thanks for ur comment!
@RedRaven (39)
• India
17 May 07
I dunno how to reply in this site as am new and have no idea why it did not appear on the page. Well thanks for the reply. i guess there is but i havent found it yet! i am going on a therapy...well the phobia is still there but my nightmare have lessen a lot!
@brand4less (1061)
• Indonesia
17 May 07
several years ago i had some nightmares too,i didn't go to doctor i just took sleeping pills.it wasn't a gud solution and can lead a person into an addiction.luckily,those moments was so over.. wish u gud luck on your theraphy :)
@yamahagirl (415)
•
15 May 07
hi there,
u have raised a very good point here.
im just used to people saying thats its peaceful but ur right no one knowes u got me thinking?????
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@brand4less (1061)
• Indonesia
16 May 07
yess,who knows..but i think there's nothing we can do about it.thanks for ur comment!
@brand4less (1061)
• Indonesia
17 May 07
yup,unfortunately we don't have a choice in this matter..
thanks for your response!
@RedRaven (39)
• India
16 May 07
I am not sure...but may be for some it is peaceful, may be for others its torturing cos i too have experienced that. The Docter says am suffering from 'dark phobia' where i always cannot sleep with a dark room. I need lights to sleep or make sure no hands strangle me but then suddenly one day i woke up in a hospital.Later they say i was sleep-dying...i dunno what that means but i felt nuthing except for the sweet feeling, peaceful with no more nightmares!In my dream i was passing many places and i was unconcious according to the medical terms for many mins!