Can you marry somebody because he/she is very rich?

@stdrst (471)
Bulgaria
May 15, 2007 11:22am CST
There are many people who find rich husband/wife and the marry them. They think that in this way they will be rich but do you think that they are happy together? Is money happiness? Can you do something like it for money?
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21 responses
• United States
15 May 07
I had the opportunity to marry for money and am so glad I passed it up. People who do that earn every penny the hard way! I can't imagine money ever being so important to me that I'd agree to spend the rest of my life with someone I don't love! It's hard enough to stay together when you DO love the person you marry.
@stdrst (471)
• Bulgaria
15 May 07
Thanks sharing. I think is the same way as you think.
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@jenai26 (111)
• Philippines
15 May 07
Hmmm let me think about it? lol ;) for me i would still marry someone i love, if he's rich then im lucky enough that the man i love is also a rich guy..... It's important that the guy has enough money but its not the money that only matter because money can't buy happiness.....
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@stdrst (471)
• Bulgaria
15 May 07
But would you marry somebody only because he is rich and you want to be rich, too. It doesn't mean that you love him.
@jenai26 (111)
• Philippines
16 May 07
If I love him but for the sake of being rich I will not marry him there should be love in the relationship, I don't want to spend the rest of my life to this person whom I don't love...
@stdrst (471)
• Bulgaria
16 May 07
You are totally right. Unhappiness means living without love but money are above all.
@yanstill (1490)
• China
16 May 07
well,if it happens that that guy i want to marry happens to have some money,why not?when two people married,if one is much more richer than another,then,maybe,some people will think that one of them are married to another for money.but i think this is not always true. if a girl marry for money but not love,then i am sure she will not get happiness,money can buy objects,but never happiness.marriage without love is terrible,i don't know if two can create feelings on each other after marriage,but i've seen so many divorces,i don't think marry a rich man you don't love is a wise choice.
@yanstill (1490)
• China
21 May 07
thank you for your BR.i appreciate it.
• India
15 May 07
What i would do is marry the girl and get the money and then i would divorce that girl and then marry any other girl whom i love. :)) Just kidding. We cannot do that just for money. I personally feel that if wife is richer than husband, then the husband wont get the respect because obviously he is not that rich. This would create a lot of tension between the couples and that would not be nice for them eventually. If we marry them for money it will mean that we have been sold for money which we obviously wont like...
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@stdrst (471)
• Bulgaria
15 May 07
Marrying for money means selling ourselves. I totally agree with you.
@sabwinner (499)
• China
16 May 07
hi, stdrest. I don't mind marrying a rich guy, but we should fall in love. I'll marry him if we love each other. Having a lot of money is a kind of exciting things too! So, I care more about his character and his behaviore, as to the money he has, the more the better.
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@stdrst (471)
• Bulgaria
16 May 07
hehe, you are right...
• Singapore
16 May 07
I dont think so, married is sacred to me. I only want to marry once. Cause being with somebody that I love has a higher priority than being rich. I set my life with priorities, the first is my loved one and my families, i mean my families is also my loved ones but in another category, follow by my friends, then my career then money..
@stdrst (471)
• Bulgaria
16 May 07
Maybe you are right, but money is very important part or life. Life without money is not a happy life no matter how loved you are and how much you love the others.
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• Singapore
16 May 07
Yes, I agree with you. Life without money is a sad thing. But I will use other ways of getting rich, not by marrying myself to a Money Tree.
• India
16 May 07
Well, A good question. Money will try it's best to bring happiness. But Marrying a rich person may or may not bring happiness. It all depends on the person who percieves happiness.
@stdrst (471)
• Bulgaria
17 May 07
You can't be happy wihout money no matter how much you love and how much you are loved.
@ak97rr (83)
• Indonesia
16 May 07
Money could bring you happiness , but could bring sadness.. could u imagine if u marry but you don't have any money ? your life will broke.. how could u make your son, wife happy ?but if you marry with rich woman but for her money, you sell your freedom to your wife....right ?
@stdrst (471)
• Bulgaria
16 May 07
I think that yor answer is the one that I like most from all the answers of this topic. Great!!! Finally I found somebody with oppinion the same as mine. Yes, it is true that love is important but withou money everything will brake...
• Philippines
15 May 07
ammm, if it is their last resort then why not maybe they had a reason for that and marrying to a rich person is not easy and if you have a soft heart then its not hard to love to others..
@stdrst (471)
• Bulgaria
15 May 07
Can you love somebody only because he is rich? can't undrestand you. Explain!
@TerryQ (81)
• China
15 May 07
I will marry with two kind of people. The one who I love and the one who love me. If the rich woman really love me,marrying her is considerable.
@stdrst (471)
• Bulgaria
16 May 07
It is the best case. I wish you to marry a rich and loving woman.
• China
16 May 07
if the guy i love who happens to be a rich man ,how can i pass up? right? but if i don't love the person ,i think i will definitly refuse the temption which doesn't belong to me. i come to the world just want to enjoy it ,so how can i marry this guy to torture myself? am i reasonable,my friend?
@stdrst (471)
• Bulgaria
16 May 07
I totally agree with you. Thanks sharing, But have in mind that money are one of the mst important things in life. And many people have fun with it. You said that you want to have fun. You'll have fun being rich.
@jogie_bien (1103)
• Philippines
15 May 07
for me, i dont need that my husband to be rich, what is the most important is that you loved each other, than you lived normally life.That he is responsible for me, that we eat 3 times a day, and we buy what we need in daily life.And we lived happy.Because money cannot buy happines.MOney can buy all, but not happines and love.
@stdrst (471)
• Bulgaria
15 May 07
In this material world money can buy everything. You want it or not it is the whole truth. I am sorry that I say it.
• Norway
15 May 07
NO i could never had done it because im not after money but after the person and if she is rich thats just a pluss.
@stdrst (471)
• Bulgaria
15 May 07
Here it comes the other question. Would you marry somebody if you love him/her and ifshe/he is poor?
@sidney2 (43)
• Italy
15 May 07
Money aren't every in the life! I don't married with a man alone rich! The rich man are conceiteds. if i get married, I will do it for other reasons and if it will be there of the true feeling.
@stdrst (471)
• Bulgaria
15 May 07
Try to improve your English. Good luck!
• India
16 May 07
i think it is good, because of every person has their own dream, if the person is poor then why not he/she not marry with rich person, many rich men/women also marry with poor men/women, so is it bad thing ? i dont think so.. it is depend on necessary...., enjoy the life with ups and down.
• Canada
15 May 07
People marry for all different reasons. I would NEVER marry for money. I grew up in a wealthy family, and it was miserable. Now I am in love with an average man, neither one of us are extremely wealthy, but we make ends meet, and we are happy.
@stdrst (471)
• Bulgaria
16 May 07
You understood by yourself that money are not the most important thing. But however, you had money in all your life so you can't understand what poverty means. I know what poverty is so I will tell you that money is the most important thing. I'll tell you why. You have money and you are happy because of it. If you didn't have money you wouldn't be happy no matter that you have love. It is my belief and I don't want to offend yu with it.
@Mitraa (3184)
• India
21 May 07
Riches should not be taken as the basis of marriage at any cost. If taken, then it will certainly create imbalance in relationships between the two families with which the marriage tie up is established. Always the basis of marriage must be taken as the level of understanding between the two families as well as the desire to maintain long term relationship. We know that riches are the root cause of many misunderstandings among people. So not only marriage, if any other type of relationship or frindship is intended on the basis / target of riches, then certainly the outcome of relationship will be disasterous after a period and this has been observed in many cases. Thanks.
@taurean83 (505)
• United States
21 May 07
Financial freedom is really an important factor after marriage,specially once you have kids.Even kids are not a problem,financial freedom is important.I believe mostly peoples look for the proposals who are financially establish and well off.But I do not believe on this theory that the financial status of anyone should stand in between anyone's wedding.The reason is,No one is guaranteed that the one who is rich at the time of wedding will remain rich whole through his life or whoever is poor will remain poor through his life,time changes so as peoples conditions,For me,financial status is not a big factor in marrying someone.Money can buy everything,but cannot buy you happiness.As my personal experience,the people who are rich never have mental ease,they are never happy,cause they always want more,they are out of limits,and therefore their lives are not in balance.Excess of everything harm you it never helps you.I believe one should have enough money to get married thorough which he can feed his family well and save some little amount for future.
@fazelath (1174)
• India
23 May 07
i will never marry a person cos he is rich,his money can't give me money,if he loves me then i would marry him,if not no,i believe money comes through luck,if there is no love then there is no life,life is like a machine with out love,u have to live so u live,
• India
16 May 07
Love doesn't involve money and money is not a measure of happiness either. Most rich a$$e$ aren't polite either. So, there's no point in marrying a rich person. I'd be happy with anyone who could love me truly and deeply from their hearts instead of their pockets.