Repenting Wounded Heart

Life goes on. When the wind changes and someones feelings for you change there is nothing you can do but accept this fact and move on. It hurts. You feel lost and empty. You feel alone as you have lost your best friend, your confidant, the person that knows you like no other and the person that could easily bring a smile to your face and warmth to your heart. These feelings are normal and you are not alone with these feelings. They have been felt throughout the ages by every walk of life young and old, rich and poor, common and famous. Loss of love has been the inspiration for great works of art. Famous songs and a whole slew of chick flicks! The one thing in common is that all these feeling fade in time. For some it takes longer. For someone especially close it may take a couple years for someone you didn't get to know as well you may be over her in a few months. You will see. You may even meet someone new and the person from the past you will look back on your fond memories and smile but you will no longer feel the tourturous, wrenching, twisting, almost unbearable pain you are experiencing today. The sun still shines. The birds still sing. Children still play and puppies and kittens are being born every day. There is beauty in the world and there is also beauty in our hearts. Find your inner beauty and live life to its fullest. Whether you are alone or with a soul mate, life is a gift and should be lived as so every day.

First of all, perhaps it's just your English, but no one OWNS anyone! That young woman is completely free to do as she pleases, including ignoring you after you hurt her. Secondly, you are both very young and shouldn't expect love relationships to last forever at this point. That's good news too! Chances are the relationship she's in now won't last either, and you'll have a second chance to be with her. The real question is . . . do you love her enough to wait for her? OR, do you suddenly want her back simply because she's NOT available? Many people do just as you have done, rejecting what they have only to find how much they want it when it's gone. It's not an easy lesson to learn, and I'm sorry you are finding yourself in this position. On the other hand, you're learning THIS lesson early!! That's good! So, there's good and bad news here! If you can wait until this other relationship fizzles, you might stand a chance with her -- especially if you let her know how wrong you were and how much you regret what you did before. Be prepared to go all out to win her back, though. On the down side -- this may be a very long-lasting relationship for her, and if I were her I'd be very reluctant to give any guy a second chance to hurt me. Sorry if this doesn't help much! I feel badly for you, but it's too late to protect you from yourself. All you can do now, in reality, is to look around you and realize that there are lots of beautiful, caring women out there who'd love a chance to be with you -- especially if you treat them right and show appreciation for them!