Would you date someone you are not physically attracted to?
By jenai26
@jenai26 (111)
Philippines
May 15, 2007 8:07pm CST
Would you date someone you are not physically attracted to? Why and Why Not?
for me most likely not, to me chemistry is really important, can you have chemistry with someone you're not attracted to. I doubt it. Nobody else has to think he's good looking. But to me at least. Ye must be attractive.
4 responses
@babygurl850406 (1322)
• United States
16 May 07
I wouldn't be able to date someone I was not attracted to, Looks are not everything of course but there has to be something that you find physically appealing to spark up that chemistry. I dont think chemistry can be there if you dont find someone to be attractive.
I wouldn't want to be with a man who did not find me attractive but liked me for other reasons, I think it would be a tough relationship. Your mate should say things like "you are pretty" or "you are sexy" different things to make you feel good.
@taurean83 (505)
• United States
16 May 07
I do not think that just for dating you should be attracted physically to someone.What I think is,attraction and falling in love are two different things.Attraction is temporary in which you might make physical relation to the person you are interested in But Love is true feeling which doesn't need any physical attraction or anything.You could love a person just for his/her single quality and you never know when you fall for him/her.So,I do not believe that physical attraction lasts forever.If you really love someone you feelings will creat automatically for that person.
@wonder_grrrl66 (236)
• United States
16 May 07
I agree that love can make you blind, but there has to be someting interesting or attractive about the person in question. One guy I'm friends with is not my type at all and though I can hang out with him I'm not really intersted in him. But there is one thing I find attractive about him and that's his eyes. He's got really nice eyes. I just ignore the rest even though I know I'll never date him because I'm not attracted to him physically.
@PsychoDude (2013)
• Netherlands
16 May 07
Love makes blind, I dated 2 girls of which I thought they didn't look too well. Before I started dating them I didn't like their looks, but as I got to know them more well I slowly started to fall in love with their character and suddenly their looks appeared to not be as bad as all. After having broken up though and the feelings totally gone you start thinking again how could I have been attracted to her.
But I suppose looks aren't of a major importance to me.
