getting married
By 3superkids
@3superkids (446)
Philippines
May 16, 2007 2:29am CST
perhaps many of you mylotters will agree with me when i say that getting married is one of the major decision that we have to decide in our life. what do you think is an ideal age to get married? what are the advantages and disadvantages between getting married at a young age of say 18 - 22 and later age of say 30 - 40?
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3 responses
@shelly_smile22 (13)
• India
16 May 07
I think 21/22 is the good for getting married for girl and 25-27 is good for guys.30-40 is not the good time for getting married.because age have take a vital role in married life.if you get married in 30 or 35 age you have't so many enthuse or romanticisms,which is very necessary for married life.and the other thing is after marriage everybody should need some time to understand each other.
after that the couple thought about kids.but if you have already over 30s you don't get enough time to spend or understand each other....because there is some hurry for the first issue.because over age may creat some difficulties to being a mother or a father.
Another factor is for girl in 22-25 they have much patience or understanding power,when they are going to 30
there is some complication about under standing power.
A newly married young couple is more looking happy than a elder newly married couple.
@3superkids (446)
• Philippines
16 May 07
i think you have a point there. anyway, i read somewhere that the ratio of broken marriage with young couples who marries at a youg age is higher compared to those who got married at a later age. but, i also believe that regardless of the age success of every marrieage depends on the love, respect and trust for each other of the couple.
@anandmehala (20)
• India
16 May 07
yeah , i belive this thing , getting married is our own independent , people say thet getting married at the age of 18-22 , will get an good leading life and to give birth of child in good health , bt getting married in 30-40 also lead an good life , bu it Depends on the couple .....
@3superkids (446)
• Philippines
16 May 07
yes my ob-gyn said that getting pregnant at a later age has more health risk both for the mother and the child. also ages 35 and above reduces the chance of pregnancy.
@fazelath (1174)
• India
17 May 07
i think the right age to get married is when you are capable taking responsibilities and mature enough to take right decisions,the advantage of getting married at young age is that you are healthy and enjoy life to full,and the disadvantage is some are immature,
the advantages of getting married late is you are mature enough to take responsibilities and handle any situations in life
