can those men at their thirties be sincere and trusted??
By larissa_cai
@larissa_cai (100)
China
May 16, 2007 3:38am CST
Recently, one of my friends has met with such a guy who is at his thirties, about 9 years older than her. He takes good care of her and help her a lot. The problem is as the girl has been exposed to the society not long ago and she is worried that this guy just wanna play with her. She also cannot believe that such guy will love the girl like her for he should regard her as an innocent little child.
So can such man love that kind of girl with sincerity instead of playing with her just wanting her body??
4 responses
@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
16 May 07
Yes I guess so... It depends. I guess a person worth of your trust does not depend on age...Younger generation is quite immature ...while the older generation... is an expert in life's game.
How would you know who to trust? Well basically its on how you know the person whether of any age. There is no assurance... but you have to gamble to know.
@larissa_cai (100)
• China
16 May 07
Yeah, quite agree with you. You can never know the answer unless you get involved in. Thank you.
@lucas528 (323)
• Northern Mariana Islands
16 May 07
Not all men are the same. Age doesn't matter. Love conquers all. These are one of the words that we should always keep in our minds. That guy can be sincere and trusted. My partner is 18 years older than me but can be trusted and I can the sincerity. Just tell your friend that she should leave some love for herself. She shouldnt give all of her.
@magica (3707)
• Bulgaria
16 May 07
There is a question too: why she is with him? What are her expectations? If she treatest herself as a toy for the older men, they will treat her as a toy too. It a question of self-respect. Some young girls are girly girls, stupid, but funny. Others suggest more serious feelings.So...what kind of girl is she actually?
@larissa_cai (100)
• China
16 May 07
Actually they are not in a relationship, the guy expressed his affaction to her. She is wondering whether they can develop into a relationship whether this guy can be reliable. She is cute beautiful and innocent. Our friends like her very much.
@tictactams (135)
• Australia
16 May 07
it really depends on the guy most guys i know in there thirties are lookingt for someone to settle down with im 28 and im with a guy a who is 34 we have been together for three years now and all is good if anything the older guys are more worried too about being with younger girls cause they think they are not ready to settle for just them cause of there age they worry some guy there own age might come along and take them away best thing to do is for them to talk and open up there feelings to each other
@larissa_cai (100)
• China
16 May 07
Thank you. yeah, we all should be brave, not being hindered just by the age.
