What do you do when your beloved hurts you?

I try to forgive first and try to know why this happen and prevent it happen in the future...

One thing that i have learned is that people who love each other can hurt each other unintentionally. No one's perfect and that's why we make mistakes. If my boyfriend hurts me unintentionally (and he has), we talk about it and he takes steps not to do it again, and vice versa. As long as its not INTENTIONAL, I suggest you face the problem and try to work it out because you are bound to hurt your beloved too eventually. It's part of life.

This is when one's EGO comes into picture. Once you are hurt, if the ego is strong, then we do something which will make the problem worse. So what i will do is , explain how i felt because of my beloved's action and try to make her understand. THis will if not definitely solve the problem, but it will surely avoid further damage :) and creates peace of mind soon.

i think you've got no choice but to face the problem. hiding or running away from it won't solve any problems. i'd probably be really angry and would take some time to calm down and think rationally. i would want him to explain and justify what he did, listen to his side of the story and then work something out. i would also require him to make up for whatever he did! hehe.. ^_^

talk with him or her and ask for the reason why did he do that. believe that something happens for reasons and also believe in your beloved. this is my opinion.

If its not possible to talk about it at the moment i got weight traning to get it out of my head and then i could train like for houres without geting tired at all. I also like to meditate.

I will face the problem and ask why it happens. I will show my feelings. May be he is just unconsious that his actions or words are painfull for me.

I'll probably listen to some sad songs and sing along with the melody. SING IT LOUDLY! After that, I'll cry out LOUDLY.. Finally, I'll just laugh out LOUDLY and tell myself to be stronger.