Love marriage risk
By firumon
@firumon (501)
India
May 16, 2007 1:31pm CST
I am an 3rd year engineering student. I am in love with a girl of my own class. At the first sight we were fall into love. That is we start it from first year. I started it just for a time pass. But now i am feeling that i can't live without her. We both feel like this. But the thing is not that.
I am a muslim and she was a hindu. She always remembered me about marriage and this religious problem. But i never minded it. But now i am also think seriously, and i realised that it want to be cared. Not only that her father was a lawyer and mother was an goverment employee. My father is in abroad and mother is a house wife. Describing that not such financially fit than her family. Both of us not want to loss parents. And i am not ready to change my religion. Both our families are highly religious. That was also a problem. In short we are at high risk. How can us manage this problem. I think too much but have no result. Can we any solutions for this problem........
4 responses
@VotreAmie (3028)
• United States
11 Jun 07
This is a hard question for me to answer firumon. I think it depends on both of you: if you are both too religious and no one wants to convert then there might be a problem in the future: like for example your children.
Now if you are not too religious, or at least everyone observe their religion and respect the other ones faith then things can work out. As for the children, you just leave them chose whatever they feel good for them.
These are just my 2 cents firumon. Good luck with your girlfriend and I wish the best for both of you!
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@VotreAmie (3028)
• United States
11 Jun 07
I hope everything will work out. Good luck to both of you.
@firumon (501)
• India
11 Jun 07
Thank you my dear friend....
Your response have compelled me to think about future. As you said its a serious matter about our childrens......
I am trying her to change her religion. May be it work out. But she will lose her family. That she had told me. Now we are trying to catch our parents. For that we are visiting our houses each other in the name of friend ship.......
Thank you dear.......
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@whywiki (6066)
• Canada
16 May 07
I would like to think that true love will win out in the end, but I don't really believe it. If you lived in Canada it may be different but I know how in India things are a bit different and it may not be easy at all. I have a friend from India and he has 5 kids. He always said that his kids would have arranged marriages and they would marry Indians. Well his kids grew up and the oldest fell in love with a white girl from Canada. Both families were against the relationship until they got to know the other families. Maybe if your families get to know and love each of you things will be easier. Time will tell and good luck to the two of you, true love is a beautiful thing.
@moomincat (321)
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16 May 07
Does this matter put either of you in physical danger. I know in some countries it is not tolerated in the family or community. My heart goes out to you both.
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@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
16 May 07
You have a problem! Its not that uncommon, and its not unsolvable! There's and old saying.."Love conquers All!"
And thats a true story! Nothing in this world can stand between true Lovers! Are you truly in Love? Is she?...... if the answer is YES! there will be No problem! Whether it be Religion or Family differences it does not matter. Nothing can stop you from your intended!
Its up to you Now! go for it and be Happy!
Raise lots of little ones....God Bless you and yours!
