Disabled Children

United States
May 16, 2007 2:02pm CST
Anyone out there with disabled children? Mine are now young adults but would like further conversations. 1. Cystic Hygroma with a trach and g-tube. 2. Bipolar 3. Spina Bifida/wheelchair/shunt Thanks, Joanne
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• United States
21 May 07
I have 2 children that are disbled. My 11 year old is learning disbaled, mild mr and high fuctioning autism. My 2 year old, well to be honest they do not know exact what is wrong with her. We have had just about every test they can do done on her. As far as the doctors are concerned there is nothing medically wrong with her. She cannot/will not eat orally. She has had a g-tube in place since she was 6 weeks old.
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• United States
21 May 07
Have they checked for Arnold-Chiari type 2? How is her speech? Babies are wired to eat orally and if she cannot it wouldn't be a conscious decision on her part. It can only be either mechanical or neurological. I know how frustrating this can be. Did her neurological work-up include an MRI or CT scan?
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• United States
21 May 07
When she was in the NICU they ran every test they could think of, 4 different swallow studies have come back completely normal, they did a few ultrasounds on her brain, the first one should slight pre-term bluish tint and after that they were normal. They can find no abnormalities in her jawline. She was born almost 6 weeks early but at a normal weight. She had blood sugars under 20 that took over a week to stablize. After all the research I have done I personally think she has brain damage in the hypothalamus. She would only wake up for about a total of an hour until she was almost 3 months old, she has never felt hungry, had a very weak suck. The doctors don't think there was damage so they don't do any more testing. We already see doctors at Children's hopital so this is the best we can get. I am just hoping one day she will eat, right now we see a speech therpist twice a week.
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• United States
18 Jun 07
What you are going through is normal for those of us with special needs children. The doctors sometimes dismiss us. The hypothalamus could very well be the problem and or neurological. There was something else I was thinking of but will have to get back to you as I don't remember.
@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
18 Jun 07
Hello Joanne. I have a baby son with spina bifida. He is now a 4 weeks old. He spent the first three weeks of his life in hospital. He had an operation on his back the day he was born. Then his head started to grow so he had a shunt put in place. I am not sure if he will be able to walk when he is older. It would be nice to hear about your grown up child with spina bifida.
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@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
19 Jun 07
Hello Joanne. Thanks for writing back to me. It is the lowest part of Leo's back that has a problem. He may have a lack of toilet control when he is older. I have to use a catheter on him every four hours. He gets dirty nappies all the time. He gets very sore as a result of this. His legs look weak and don't move very much. One of them sticks out sideways.
• United States
18 Jun 07
What did you name your son? Where is his lesion-my son's is L3-L4 so he doesn't walk but when he was younger he did use reciprocation orthotics (braces and a walker). Eventually he decided his wheelchair is much faster! He has had many surgeries-more then normal for most SB kids. He plays wheelchair sports. Had surgery so he catherizes himself out of his belly button. There is much to learn. Do you live near a Shriner's hospital? Income doesn't matter if it's high or low. It is free and they know about our kids. Also, keep a journal of ALL doctor visits. Ask for records and if you don't like a doctor, get another one. Feel free to private message me. Good luck and keep me posted!
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@mamasan34 (6518)
• United States
16 May 07
I don't personally but I had a neighbor who's son had downs syndrome. He is the sweetest boy in the world. My cousin was also hit by a car and had suffered neurological damage. He lives in an assisted living facility currently. Joanne, I applaud you for your love and care of your kids. I know they must be well loved.
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