Love is blind. agree or disagree?

Philippines
May 16, 2007 8:19pm CST
Love is not blind...but lovers are..
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13 responses
@balasri (26537)
• India
17 May 07
Lust is more blinder.A very thin line.
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• Philippines
17 May 07
So you mean..lust is blind? and the lovers in lust are also blind?
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• Philippines
17 May 07
of course, lust is blind. this is because one who indulges in lust does not use his/her mind when he does so. where on earth can you find anyone who indulges in lust with sufficient reason? he/she will just simply say he/she was tempted and gave in because he/she is just human.
@huilee (1005)
• Singapore
17 May 07
Yesh, when in love... The lovers are blind... But when the loving season is over... U will tend to see the flaws of your partner and everything will seemed so imperfect... SO discouraging right? =(
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@huilee (1005)
• Singapore
17 May 07
Indeed, its discouraging... I guess all partners expect their other halfs to change according to what they expect... Like for example, my bf thinks im too fat and expects me to lose weight... Haiz.. I have been trying... But im still of the bigger build... =(
• Philippines
18 May 07
yeah..correct.. just move on maybe you will find a person who will love you as you are. :)
• Philippines
17 May 07
Yeah so discouraging, if your lover finds another then you will be left alone. Why is it so? Why can't they just love you as you are and not what they want you to be?
@toonatoons (3737)
• Philippines
17 May 07
i don't think that love is blind at all because love makes us see the beautiful side of a person, the side that other people don't get to see at all.
• Philippines
24 May 07
you're right toonatoons..thanks!
• United States
17 May 07
Love is blind for goodness sake my bofriend broke up with me and I think we got back together and for some reason I thought I still loved him what is going on with me I need to be loved but not by him
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• Philippines
18 May 07
yeah..find another person who will love you as you are. just keep on searching..thanks! :)
• United States
17 May 07
I think that sometimes love is blind..you ever woke up from a bad relationship?..look at the guy..and say..now what in the world was I thinking??...
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• Philippines
18 May 07
hehehehe...yeah sometimes..you can be thankful if you always woke up on the good relationship. but there is always ups & downs that will make you strong. sometimes from that failure you got to stand up again and learn to move on. just look at the guy and say.."thank you for making me realize that i have a good fortune ahead without you..and i will be loved again by so many along the way" ;)
@TARIQ1 (10)
• India
17 May 07
love is notblind but lovers are allwas blind, real lover is not anything seen exsept his loveone
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• Philippines
17 May 07
you're right TARIQ1.. because you are inlove you don't care what other people say.
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@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
17 May 07
I dont believe that love is blind... it just doesnt mind. When we are inlove... we are not blind to see the imperfection of our partner... but just dont mind it after all... and we see his imperfection fit him/her perfectly.
• Philippines
18 May 07
yeah..you have a point there lucky_witch. maybe your partner is so lucky coz you accepted him/her as he/she is. i wish all will be like you. :)
• Philippines
17 May 07
yah, i think love is blind.. all couples become blind when they really love each other, they ignore and accept those bad things and habits of their loved one just to be happy.. and usually, when we are in love they don`t care about our partner`s weaknesses..
• Philippines
18 May 07
yeah..you have a point there. love him as he is..thanks! :)
@zamm13 (363)
• Philippines
17 May 07
I dont think that love is blind. love is accepting not blind. When you love you see all the bad things and weaknesses of the one you love and you accept them, embrace them because that what she is. You dont demand, you accept her for who she is. It also applies to her good personalities, how you can possibly see all the good in her if your love is blind? Love is accepting not blind..
• Philippines
18 May 07
good point there zamm13! thank you! :)
23 May 07
Hi there, I do belive that love is blind.
• Philippines
24 May 07
thanks yamahagirl!
• Philippines
22 May 07
i agree coz when you love sumone you dnt care if what does he look and even what his attitute
• Philippines
24 May 07
mmmm...yeah..sometimes i feel that too..thanks!
• Philippines
20 May 07
yes love is not blind but we lovers are blind. we are blind from the reality and foolishness of other individual. love really suck when somebody trun u down despite of the love that u shared.
@oliverdt (1958)
• Philippines
22 May 07
hmmm... Im in, not just makes you blind... in some case it makes you crazy. Feels good im still crazy inlove with my wife.
• Philippines
23 May 07
good for you oliverdt. i really admire husbands who are still crazy inlove with their wives..just keep on loving her.. thanks!