What would you do if a bestfriend of yous fell in love with you?
By zamm13
@zamm13 (363)
Philippines
May 16, 2007 9:51pm CST
How many of you guys and gals will take the risk of having a relationship with your bestfriend? I used to court my bestfriend but she just said no, no can do. She said that she doesnt want to lose me so we can never be lovers. What is your stand in this subject?
5 responses
@devrajrao (167)
• India
17 May 07
i think best friend can be good lover.
keep tring man.
good luck.
@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
18 Jun 07
This is a tough one, as this is happened to me long ago. Like you, I got busted also. But I was not down-hearted by it, because we were still friends up until now. That's what I'm being thankful of, because there are some situations were friends fall in-love with each other too. But in the end, when everything seemed to be hopeless, they turn out hating/cursing one other and in some cases, worst enemies.
If you still feel that you can pull it off, then go. But do explain to her all the good and possible things that might happen, and be sure that you are with her if ever you end with each other..
@syndhujaa (252)
• India
9 Jun 07
I feel that best friends should always remain best friends only..! and I really liked the way ure friend responded to you..she doesnt want to lose you as a friend..see the friendly love in it..I know you will be hurted but take it this way that she loves you as a friend very much and try to keep in otuch with her always..lemme tell you that there is a very thin line between friendship and love..we should know the boundaries of it..and ure friend is a freind asd lover is a lover..!
cheers man..:)
dont lose heart..!
@abhi14u (11)
•
17 May 07
i think your friend is right. best friends should remain as best friends. once it takes a turn and goes towards a relationship, the friendship may fade off. and it may separate the people. and losing a bestfriend is very hurting. my best friend said this to me and i think she was right. we did love each other a lot but didnt go for a realtionship as that would have broken our beautiful friendship.