Do you mind your partner's ex?

Of course I ming, I'll steer her away from her ex anytime of the day and let her know that I'm really uncomfortable about it.

At times, I do that way also. Asking him about his past gf and he will just answer me, that I am the one he loves now. I am just asking him because I want the assurance that he really loves me... If I were you, you have to trust your bf. You are his gf now and if you really love him, then understand him and be confident that he loves you that's why you are together. Don't be insecure with his past gf. Past is past and that you have no control over it. What you have now matters. Don't put yourself much in that situation where in you are always nagging your bf..Because that might cause your break-up. For the past gf, don't get mad at them, yes they may still your bf but they can do nothing because you are the one with him right now.

OMG Huilee, I know exactly how you feel and I do understand you if your acting or having that feeling of anxiety. Sometimes, I find myself so pathetic for putting too much emphasis with my partner's ex. They are also in the same town and you know this boyfriend of mine has that so called kindness in debts to his former girl. I don't want to go into details anymore about it. But that idea, doesn't hinder my bf or his ex by communicating sometimes and I really really do hate that.And I discovered recently that he still keeps his ex pictures in a box. I really got furious and I feel so discourage and helpless that I don't want to trust him anymore sometimes. There were times where I told him, that if he still wants her, he shouldn't prolong my agony or cheat me or hide something from me about her. I would rather bear the pain of losing him rather than find him cheating or hiding something from me. I don't want to look stupid.

Technically, my boyfriend doesn't really have an ex. I'm his first serious girlfriend, so I don't think I have anything to worry about. But I'd probably feel the same way as you if my boyfriend's ex is just a neighbor. It's only natural but in order not to feel all that anxious, just try to trust your boyfriend more.

i fell your pain, i too have someone like this only mines ex pays for his cell phone bill and the woman he cheated with works with him and i at the same place, he still hangs with her and they laugh together and they are like best buddies, it makes me sick to go to work and relive them having sx, every day, and if the tables were turned oh my god would he throw a fit, so i say contact one of your ex's and let him see what it feels like. then maybe he will understand, my doesn't have to worry about that because i to do not associate with my exs except the father of my kids and believe me it ain't no social call. but i am thinking of talking to someof my ex so he will get it, and stop telling me iam am wrong for feeling the way i do. i wish you the best, and whats good for one is good for the other. your friend t

i dont know what to say but its improper..i mean my bf before is also having communication with his ex but when i demanded him not to, he cut it off..if your guy really loves you that much, i guess he will not do or let things to happen that can upset you and hurt you as well

My partner's exes don't bother me in the least. The two of us have set boundaries where exes are concerned, and we have stuck to them. He has children from previous marriages, and because of those children I respct the entire family, and want to keep things on good terms.

Yes, I also feel the same like you. There are times when I can't help myself but to feel bad. When I remember her ex-girlfriend and their relationship, I get mad to my boyfriend. It was the time when he cheated on me. That was the saddest part of our relationship. Right now, I'm trying to forget all about it. We have to move on, forgive and forget our partner for what he/she have done in the past.

Let me try to explain how I feel about this.....I have been happily married for almost 20 years.....I do not worry about him cheating on me....he does not worry about me cheating on him....we both realize that if the other one wants to be unfaithful...it means 2 things: 1. They do not value our realtionship like I do. 2. If this was to happen then we would have 2 choices: 1. stay and work it out 2. leave I know that sounds simple but we can not control what the other on will do....we can only be responsible for our own actions.....and then we hae to deal with the consequences of the choices the other makes.....in one way or the other...... To spend hours worrying about these things will not help your relationship....it can only damage it....are you so insecure about your relationship that you are threatened by these other girls???? If so, is he really the right person for you to be with??? I am not trying to be harsh with you.....but I want you to seriously think about what I said BEFORE you get mad at me...... On the other hand, I feel that it is insensitive of him to have these other women in your presence often....I realize that his "best friend" sister is one of his ex's but aren't you supposed to be his "best friend" NOW??? Can't he spend time with this other person without his sister's presence.....why must she be around him?? I wish you the best in dealing with this......