Friendship Trouble
By Angel
@nanayangel (7879)
Philippines
May 16, 2007 10:03pm CST
What's the biggest fight that you and your bestfriend had about? How much did it hurt you? Were you able to patch things up and how long did that fight lasted?
I think mine will be when a friend got mad at me for telling her how I truly feel about her relationship with her boyfriend then. I am not the type to tell things like that but she asked me to give her an honest answer so I did. Then she got mad and stopped speaking to me. It almost lasted for a year and when we were back into speaking terms again, the friendship wasn't the same. How about you
3 responses
@cheisentie (142)
• Philippines
17 May 07
i think our biggest fight is when she got jealous to my closest friend in our room, she always thought that when me and my close friend together I forget that she is my bestfriend, she didn`t tell me her secrets because of that, and then one day she had a letter to me, she told me all the things that she feel about me, I feel bad about it, so i explain to her that she is my one and only bestfriend..
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
17 May 07
Hi there! Thank you very much for your response. Sometimes best friends get really jealous when they see the other being close to someone else. I know both of them will feel bad about it and sometimes, it takes a lot of courage to reach out and try to understand each other. It's nice that your friend had the courage to tell you how she really feels. In that way, you were able to give her the assurance that she really needs.
@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
17 May 07
I think I am lucky to say that my best friend and I have never had a falling out. Ever since we met 16 years ago we have remained best friends for life. Oh we have the odd disagreement but not to the point where we don't talk for along time.
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
17 May 07
Hi there! Thank you very much for your response. I agree that you are lucky for your friendship to last that long with no major problems at all. I think that there are secret recipes to a harmonious friendship.
@megs4413 (43)
•
17 May 07
my bf and i had a blowout fight after 10 yrs of being friends over lifestyle choices....we didn't speak for 4 years
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
17 May 07
Hi there! Thank you very much for your response. Wow, four years is really long. So, are you two speaking to each other now? And did the friendship returned to normal?
