How difficult is it for you to say 'I love you' and why???

oh I think that words have a strong and precise meaning. therefore I am always very careful when using them. I also wish people could use them only when they truly meant them. So I say I love you only when I am in love with someone and only when I am sure that he is the right person and that I feel something special and strong for him. The problem is that I have already been mistaken twice in my life. I mean, I said I love twice and each time he was the wrong person. So now I am definitely against lovein my life!!!! or I pray not to meet anymore people so awful like the ones I met!!

It is easy to say it to someone that you truly love, i.e. your spouse but it can be awkward for some people even when they say it to their loved ones. For example, I have difficulty saying it to my dad but not to my mom. Maybe it's just how I was raised. Dad's always the macho, cut-me-and-i-will-bleed-but-not-cry type of person.

I have an extremely hard time saying "I love you" or being affectionate. I grew up with a very abusive mother who would say she loved me but would act contrary. So emotionally I have come to be distrustful of the phrase and have found it to be empty and hard to say. When I try and say it to my boyfriend the words actually seem to get stuck in my throat. I tend to feel bad after I say it as well. When I say "I love you " I almost feel like I've said something horrible and hateful. Like when you say something spiteful to someone you do love and after you say it you have that kinda sad sick feeling. Stangely that feeling is there when I tell someone I love them.

I never say "I LOVE YOU" with anyone even i really love them. But until i met my hubby then those words said out but whispered. Do you know which signal we implied for "I love you". That is figured with the No. :143 . do you know this?

Its very hard for me to say these three words, i really think its a big words. I say these words to my boyfriend but not always as i am not used to saying those words. There are various types of people who say those words easily after every conversation. I believe that action speaks louder than words, might be am not very romantic and i feel sorry for my partner for that but i am glad that he understands that and i am lucky in a way that he is the most romantic person i have ever met.

yah beacause im afraid that the person im asking might say "NO"..im afraid to get hurt and im afraid what will she be thinking!s not that im not fighting for my love but its just that its not easy!

Saying it isnt hard for me at all but for me personally the words dont cut it cause ANYONE can mutter "I Love You" to anyone whether they mean it or not...they are just words.....SHOWING someone I love them is far more important to me and being SHOWN as well...same with saying "I'm Sorry"...dont say it, show it..I tell my kids that all the time

I think its very difficult to say coz its related to heart in my view.

Words and phrases can be taken in many different ways because they have so many different meanings. The words "I love you" can have a profound effect. I don't have any issues with saying "I love you" to the right person at the right time. I say those words to my children, and to my partner, and I feel them and mean them from the bottom of my heart. I get a wonderful warm feeling when my children turn around and say "I Love you too mommy." My partner and I share those words every morning before he goes to work, and every night right before bed. I couldn't say them just because it's the right thing to say. I say it because I mean it with every inch of my heart and soul.

r u askin' about to propose a person? or just say "i luv u" at the end when someone leaves. If to propose a person. It's hard 4 me to, b'cuz it's hard to find out whether she/he's loving you? and break a good friendship! I've already lost a friend by saying that n don't wish to repeat the mistake! If in conversation' i love to say it with g*rls.

I am the type of person who freely shares my emotions...I am sure that you know that much about me by now....BUT they have to be MY emotions before I will say it.... I truly mean what I say....I am one of those rational people who thinks about what they are saying before they say it....wording is important to me....I go out of my way to show appreciation when I feel that......at the same time.....I am very capable of expressing disapproval or anger without intentionally causing pain to the recipient of these feelings.. If I tell you that "I love you".....it is a fact! OR you will never hear it from me either....

Hi,MagdalenaM! I have never said "I love you" to my ex-boyfriends and my current boyfriend. :( Well,it's hard for me to say this sentence to them.I would rather to say something similarly to "I love you",but I have never said this word to them.I know maybe I'm a little bit strange,but,mmmmmmmmm,hard for me to say it out.

i say the word almost everytime mostly to my boyfriend.if any other person says it to me,i do respond with thank you.even if i respond back with i luv u 2,there is no strings attached just a friendly greeting,thats all.

its not at all difficult if u love from BENEATH OF UR HEART

Im like you I dont say it unless I really mean it. I think alot of people just say it out of habit. Yes I think its become some what of a habit to some people.

yeah its a bit difficult to say it when you will be fearing that the other person will say YES or NO.this is kinda of embarrasing but i thin k everyone goes through this phase if he/she is really the person tp whom they are saying. it really matters if this is genuine or not.

well if its just for fun on not from your heart then its really easy but if you really mean it then i think its kinda hard ;)

I tell my husband and sons "I love you" all of the time, but to anyone else it's very hard. My family wasn't very denenstrative when I was growing up. We didn't hug and kiss a lot, either, so I tend to get nervous when people invade my "personal space". A couple of my friends are very "touchy" people and I've steeled myself to handle their hugs when they give them, but they understand why I always pull back. It's habit for me and it's a hard one to break. Even telling my brother and sister "I love you" is hard because we never really did it growing up. It was assumed and known that we loved each other, but almost never spoken. I don't want my boys to grow up that way. I tell them several times a day that I love them. :)

I only say i love you to the persons who means a lot to me. I don't just give it away like its just an ordinary greeting, I only say it to the ones who means a lot to me. I feel that if I often say it, it'll just lose its value.

yeha it's difficult for me, maybe i'm not raised in an environment where people can say 'i love you' easily. :D and maybe that's because i haven't found the one i really love, that i should let his/her know that i love her. and maybe when i say 'i love you', it's like taking all of my pride down :D