infidelity!!!

Philippines
May 17, 2007 4:55am CST
is it really that easy to cheat with your wife or husband? why?
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@okwusman1 (2247)
• Abuja, Nigeria
17 May 07
infidelity is a destryer of marriage. husband and wife should be honest to each other in order to have and make a blissfull and lovely home.
• United States
17 May 07
I would say No. It's not that easy for me to cheat at all. It's not even a thought that is in my mind. However for others, they may have they're own reason for cheating depending on the relationship. Some people do just because they are uphappy, some for revenge, and other's probably just one thing lead to another.
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@soccermom (3198)
• United States
17 May 07
Honestly, I think it depends on the relationship. I cheated on hubby #1 all the time, I never felt guilty about it, and I'm sure he cheated on me too. Now with hubby #2 I couldn't bring myself to cheat on him. Why? Because I adore him. He fulfills me in every way imagineable, something I didn't have with hubby #1. if your relationship is truly lacking something, yeah it is that easy, but that being said it's better to just get out than to live a lie.
@mamasan34 (6518)
• United States
17 May 07
I wouldn't say it is easy for most people. There is a lot of guilt involved on both sides. Guilt for the cheater because they did the deed, guilt for the person who was cheated on because they don't know why it happened and they sometimes feel it is their fault that they didn't do enough or wasn't enough for their partner. Which is most times needless to feel that way. Cheaters cheat because most times they aren't happy with the relationship and are just too scared or feel that they can't get out of the relationship for various reasons so they cheat instead of doing the right thing and ending the relationship, sometimes people put themselves in situations that ultimately end up with a very bad outcome such as cheating. It is not always easy to be the cheater. I have seen it many times.
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