Does your significant other even do stuff that really gets you annoyed/angry?

I have always found it best to communicate about differences in our relationship, especially when one of us annoys the other. I don't go out without my wife any more, simply because I don't really feel like it. When I was younger, I used to work as a musician and was out most nights. Sometimes I would stay behind in the club after work and have a few drinks and inevitably there would be some words if I got back home too late. But it was always sorted out, because nothing would be hidden or buried. I felt I was occasionally enititled to stay after work for a drink and a chat because I rarely had chance to go out unless I was working, and my wife felt that I should take on less work and get some nights when I could go out with her. It was a problem, that couldn't be resolved because of the nature of my work. In the end though we compromised. I would stay and have a drink just one night after work and we would spend more time together going out in the day at weekends. The one thing I have found important was that if I make a promise, I always keep it, unless an emergency comes up that is, because once you start breaking promises, mistrust could cause problems in the relationship.

For me, confronting my bf is no use... I mean of coz he do stuff i dun like occassionally and ya, i do make him angry at times too... But, i guess sometimes, they wun noe... I make my bf angry coz he thinks im so indecisive... He thinks i never listen to him... As a matter of fact, thats my nature... Thats how i behave... I cant change it overnight... but in fact, im trying hard to get over the indecisiveness in me... But its pretty hard as its my nature... In turn, he always pisses me off with his short temper and harshness... Tt always makes me cry... Tough ya.... But i guess after all u n ur guy have been together for so long, u guys should talk over it and get over it ya... =)

Sometimes is better for each of significant to have their time. Maybe he did what he did because it was his day off and he thought that is not working but in this case is excluding you from his life for a few hours and that's bad. Maybe acting in this way he wants to point something or to punish himself for beeng a nice gay in the rest of the time. The mind of the human is complicated.

Well some times and some actions make me really get angry and i just tell them that iam not feeling good with there act and i ask them to change if i have rights.But some times i get adjusted with some of his things though i get angry and i won't feel comfort as life is like that only we have to adopted both likes and dislikes.

oops.. is this discussion against boyfriends only? sorry coz i have a different situation. my girlfriend is the bad one ya know lol!

yes. my girlfriend always do things that make me angry. she said she does it so she can be sweet at the end of the day..