is there such thing as an ideal relationship??
By lady_kanti
@lady_kanti (122)
Philippines
5 responses
@delenep (212)
• United States
17 May 07
I think it would depend on ur definition of the ideal relationship and ur maturity level. I think I have an ideal marriage and that includes arguments, disagreements, stresses and problems because I know I married the perfect man for me and he lets me know everyday that I'm the perfect woman for him. Because we love each other thru any and everything and work out our differences constructively, I think we have the ideal relationship for us.
@marie_love (29)
• Philippines
8 Jun 07
I used to believe there was such thing as ideal relationship, until my ideal relationship was shattered . Then, I realized it's best to make a good relationship with yourself first and never expect anything from any relationship..
@nicolecab (923)
• United States
25 May 07
I do not believe that there is an ideal relationship. The old saying the grass may look greener on the other side but we all know that it is not. Every relationship is going to face some kind of problem that is going to need working on. If you never have to work on your relationship then how do you expect it to grow. Other wise it would always stay the same.
@ariesflame (188)
• United States
17 May 07
I am in my ideal relationship. I think we have several ideal relationships in our lives. For instance we can have ideal relationships with our spouses or lovers. We can have ideal relationships with our friends and kids. In the case of spouses and lovers, mine is my best friend as well as my lover and parent to my kids. We talk about everything, rarely argue, and we both love a great debate. We agree that money isn't everything, that life is to short to be unhappy, even if you are broke, disabled etc. We both believe in the same relgious concepts. It's actually scary sometimes. We finish each other's sentences ALOT. It's almost annoying sometimes but we laugh about it. We laugh with each other a lot. My kids and I have a pretty good relationship. Its' not always ideal. But, it is pretty good. I am cherishing this time that they are young though because teenage hood comes before ya know it and then the ideals of youth are lost and new ideals are set. However, I think that ideal relationships take work and sometimes a little compromise. (Something my hubby and I are very good at!).
@iintrinsic (34)
• Canada
17 May 07
It depends on your choice. Personally I believe in dreams. Cause they can tell you something. You know, how people say that their dreams tell them something. They're probably right!