Do you find it easy or hard?

United States
May 17, 2007 5:35pm CST
Are you an approachable person do you make friends easily or are you shy and a loner? Does it matter what a person looks like for you to be their friend. I myself have been told that I am unapproachable but I think I am easy to be friends with. I meet people all the time, like I have a lot of new friends here on mylot.
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13 responses
@ellie26 (4139)
• Malaysia
18 May 07
I think I can make friends easily. I have a few friends from other countries, old and young as well. I have my virtual friends in mylot. I mixed and mingle with friends quite easily. I guess I can say I am approachable person.
@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
18 May 07
I do not mind making new friends. I will restrict my reply in the context of mylot. I normally do not reject any request for friendship (on the other hand some of my requests are rejected by some members). I see the profile and see the quality of discussions and replies posted by that members...then I accept the request for friendship. But I find some of them...do not participate in the discussions started be me. I feel more happy if they participate in my discussions...and vice versa. I have no doubt made some really really good and wonderful friends here. I am proud of them (and of course you are one of them). Thanks for being my friend. deepak
@sreevasu (2717)
• India
18 May 07
I keep a smile in my face to anything and everything. A smile could cure certain illness. And I think I am approachable. I have lots of friends and all go well with me. My sign is Taurus (I normally turn head to astrology) and that too says I am friendly.
@friendship (2084)
• Canada
18 May 07
I am just being careful when meeting a new person (a stranger). So, it seems that I am unapproachable but actually, I like meeting new people. Personally, I don't care what a person looks like to be my friends as long as I am comfortable with their personalities.
@joice86 (1078)
• Philippines
18 May 07
Friends forever! - Friendship
People say I am approachable, because I look serious all the time, but when they get to know me, they find that I am nice to be with. I can't say that everyone I meet are my friends, maybe they are just acquaintances. There are only few people whom I consider my friends and they have been my friends for a long time. Others just come and go in my life.
@xueyao (164)
• China
18 May 07
I want to make friends everyday, but I belive to be a close friend for me it is difficult.In my mind, everyone if he or she want to make friend with me I will accept that to invite.And I hope two of us can improve friendship day after day.I can sure that that the guy whether the friend I want to be a intimate friend in the course of this.I will share everything about my life,friend,working,favourite food and so on. I belive someone make friend with me in honest as my lot.so I also regard all of you is my friend.
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
17 May 07
Ive never heard that saying about me. I love meeting people all the time. I certainly do enjoy talking to different people from all over the world. Isnt it great? I dont think your unapproachable.
@34momma (13882)
• United States
18 May 07
i am a very out going person when it comes to meeting people. i am not at all shy. i don't care what people look like i love meeting new people and getting there thoughts and insight on different topics. i guess you can say i am a people person. which is so corny but true. LOL
• United States
17 May 07
they say I am the same way unaproachable... and I find that to be a good asset... any and everyone should not be able to approach me if there is fear in your heart... then that means the wierd people and the fake people will then stay away... Im a very nice person easy to talk to but I hold a certain grace...which tells people if you are about the real then she's the one to deal with... my mother always told me to smile alittle don't look so mean..LOL
@mamounz (248)
• Israel
18 May 07
hi billionaire5. i hink that is very easy for my making new friends in life here in mylot is more difficult i do not know why but still i am new here.. but i not locking in my life to be friend with every one i meet some time you are interest in making new friends with some one you really share interests with hem. i know some people they have many friends more than he can deal with they are taking a lot of his time he want to end with many of them but he could not do that.... for me they are (people i know)............. and about you i do not think you are unapproachable you was very nice when we first met and we are friends now
@irishmist (3814)
• United States
18 May 07
For some reason I'm very approchable. I can be in the market minding my business and people will talk to me. Also when I'm out washing my Rent A Center windows, people will strike up a conversation with me. I just talk to everyone and always try to have a smile even if I'm not in the mood. I feel I always have to be polite. I also have always worked with the public for years, so heak I just love people!
• Andorra
17 May 07
I think for me is a bit hard to get new friends, im a bit shy, but im always looking to get more friends and the ones i already have are the best friends i could ask for.
@happymom1 (1179)
• United States
17 May 07
Hi billionaire5! I am a type of person that is shy especially i dont know the person but i try to be real and nice to people. If i have a friend they can count on me. I have lot of fiends but some said i am strict. They said that because they did not know me well. If they me in reality they will love me. :)