Have you been "dumped" on mylot?

I didnt noticed anything i havent requested many to be my friend they added me and now if they delete me its just their own decision and i guess they should as i have not been that much active this month in mylot so not many responses from my side for the month to them.

I don't pay much attention to it, but I dumped a couple people and in all honesty I wish one person would quit replying to my discussions, but I can't stop them. lol You're still on my friend's list. Please don't dump me. :( lol :)

Heck I can’t remember from day to day who is on my list- I try to answer certain people that I find interesting- Yes you’re one of them if you couldn’t tell—So if you dump me- I’ll know- : ) But really I’m like you- if they dump you- heck with them! Or maybe they have been dumped from the site all together-

I don't know if I have been dumped. When I joined mylot I just accepted everyone that wanted to be my friend. I wish that I could go back and redo the whole thing. Now I have way too many friends to know who is who. I look for certain ones that I enjoy participating in their discussions. Then I go to the discussions my friends started to try to help the other friends that I forget about.

I have to admit, I am a "dumper". That sounds so bad lol. Since I am still new here I didn't have many people on my list. The other day I was upset because it seemed like no one on my friends list was answering ANY of my discussion so I went though and deleted the ones that had NEVER responded to a post I made. Those that were left got to read how I felt and made up for it more then I had very hoped for. I would have been happy with just a post here and there, what I got was almost all my recent posts being answered. If I have been dumped it is ok, I just know who my "real" friends are and love them even more.

Well, I never checked my Friends list. Some people add me, I just accept and never take a look anymore. I'm not willing to make friends on MyLot yet. Only after I receive one payment. Before that, I won't want to make any friends. Well, maybe people deleted you because you don't respond to their discussion, or because you don't reply to their messages... Not that they don't like you. There could be something else.

I feel dumped is a strong word. I think if someone deletes you as a friend it is their loss so one shouldn't loss sleep over it. Besides if you have over 250 plus friends like i do it is not humanly possible to respond to everybody's discussions all the time. I feel quality of friends is more improtant than quantity. good luck. happy posting. :)

I was going to start a discussion very similar to this tonight too. I hadn't noticed a friend's discussions on my list of discussions started by friends in long enough that I was getting worried about her. I admired her very much and was afraid something had happened to her. I went to my friends list so I could check her profile to see for sure just how long she'd been gone but she wasn't listed anymore. I didn't delete her so I guess she deleted me. I'd love to know why because I can't think of a single thing I could have done to offend her. I used an old message to get to her profile so I know she is still active. I considered sending her a message for an explanation or in the hopes that it was just a mistake but that might just make it worse. I won't avoid any of her discussions that I do see but I'll think very carefully before I respond to any.

If I have I haven't noticed =) I don't pay attention to things like that, but if you dumped me I would notice =) And a few other people, I like certain discussions and would miss them =) So I guess maybe I would care...if it was somone who had a lot of the same interestes that I do, like kids and whatnot.

I appear to have the same amount of friends as I have had in the past, so no I haven't been dumped yet. Those people don't know what they are missing, their loss for dumping you!

I've only been here for a week so I haven't been dumped yet but I referred quite a few people that joined but never post. Ugh, that's annoying! Anyways, don't let it get to you. Maybe they realized that you don't have much in common?