I need a Guys (or Ladies) opinion (Mature Content Warning)
By Erilyn
@Erilyn (3020)
United States
May 18, 2007 7:35am CST
I want to know what guys think about something like this, ladies if you have done this how well did it go over? Or would you even do something like this?
Lets say you were out with your gf/wife/so and she is wearing a cute outfit, nice top and skirt, has her hair done nicely, she did her makeup the way you like, and you know she took the time to really look nice for you. You are out at a restaurant together having a nice diner, talking about your day etc.
And she leans over and whispers in your ear that she isn't wearing any panties. And to top it off she also tells you that she "shaved".
Now would you get excited that she has done all of that for you? Would it be exciting to you knowing that you could have full access but because you are in public you would have to wait? Or are you on the other side of the fence and think that it would be highly inappropriate? Do you think little things like that should be kept at home?
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15 responses
@sunslinger (474)
• Singapore
18 May 07
I think that is really very exciting and am seriously hoping that my spouse would really do that for me one day. I think it's really nice between couples and keeps the passion burning. The best tease is when the man cannot get it immediately.
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@ritwikghoshal (405)
• India
18 May 07
my response may break the charming environment..... but i would like to request girls not to do it as it's very very unhygienic and even may cause serious infections .
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@ritwikghoshal (405)
• India
18 May 07
dear i am talking about places outside your home.... no one likes to wear undergarments throughout the day. your home is not dusty and pollution affected thats why you have not faced any problem yet. but girls who used to wear skirts(not trousers)without panties may have problems if they make it a habit.
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@Erilyn (3020)
• United States
18 May 07
Thank you for explaining your meaning a bit more. i was a bit confused at first. I wasn't meaning making a habit out of it, just something fun to do every once in a while you know? Something interesting to liven things up a bit. Thank you again for clearing up your meaning for me! :)
@rogue13xmen13 (14402)
• United States
19 May 07
Actually, that means that she is totally into you, but she should have waited until you two were at home, because then you could just let loose on the bed.
@filmbuff (2909)
• United States
22 May 07
I personally would and have liked situations like that. The "surprise" aspect as well as knowing what all was done for you (meaning all the trouble that *you* went to) and what will probably be happening later makes for an exciting evening.
Just a heads up, but be prepared for your own surprises, because he may attempt to "take advantage" of the situation discretly while still in the resteraunt.
I don't know the gentleman in question, however guys are guys. He may be shocked, he might think it's inappropriate, but I think he will like it.
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@Erilyn (3020)
• United States
22 May 07
He did. He said the waiting part of it was the best. It was the tease of it all running through his mind till we got home. I think too it had to do with the fact that I took the time to make an overt move like that. I am normally one to sit back and let him make all the moves. You would figure at this stage of my life I would already have the confidence to do something like that. I am slowly but surly getting there though lol.
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@nishchith (136)
•
19 May 07
finally u got the girl who is more expressive about her feelings rather than concealing it she just showed up thats the kind of girls we guys need dont u think n u punk ur one lucky guy
@MrNiceGuy (4141)
• United States
18 May 07
I would find that pretty attractive, and my girlfriend is definitely the kind to do something like that. She shaves and she talks about stuff like that in public all the time because she knows I'm not 100% comfortable with it, but when she's so comfortable I am too.
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@Gwapako_28 (2140)
• Philippines
19 May 07
Honestly,that would be so exciting for the couple to do that sometimes.I cant imagine if i am going to do that to my future husband to be.And i really planned to do that when we are together soon.Lol...
Im sure he will love it and it will excite him A LOT!!!
@happythoughts (4109)
• United States
18 May 07
Some guys care and some dont. I all depends on if that is something your guy would be interested in. Everyone has their own buttons and it is up to their special someone to find out what thoes buttons are.
@Manoj_s (939)
• India
19 May 07
As far as i am concerned i would love all of them men and wemen to through all their under wears .it gives do much of air to the organs they say thank you so much of cramping for air going on there.it is really is a relief.but i dont agree with shaving off ,that may couse some trouble .if i would have at your hubbies place i would have excited a lot.
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@canjo13317 (396)
• United States
18 May 07
i personally would enjoy my wife doing that, erilyn. she has been know to surprise me on occasion and i find it wonderful and exciting. the wait definitely enhances the final outcome. let me ask you a question, if i may. turn the tables.....your man leans over to you in the middle of dinner and whispers that he has neatly trimmed himself and is wearing a pair of bikini briefs. would you find it difficult to wait until you got him alone in private? hmmmmm.....
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@michaelalwynrabago (256)
• Philippines
19 May 07
i think it inappropriate because i'm a decent person and i like my wife the way she is. having no panties on public? what a girl. not thinking or not even asking her husband... hehe. She sould have told me so i have prepared...lol
@smurfette1979 (13)
• United States
18 May 07
things of this sort keep the relationship exciting. i mean a girl likes to keep a man on his toes. my husband and i have been together 13 years, and i'm only 28 (do the math). anyway it's little things such as this has kept our marriage exciting, and has kept us from wondering if you get my drift. u have to add excitement to the deal or it becomes a hum drum life. yes by all means do whatever it takes. and guys, appreciate the fact that they did it for you.
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@Erilyn (3020)
• United States
18 May 07
Congrats on being together for so long! And yeah you are right you do have to add excitement every now and then lol. My ex husband wasn't very interested at all. I went and got an "outfit" from Fredrick's and he didn't even look twice at me. I ended up going to bed alone while he played his game all night long. I think I will have a different reaction this time :).
@rolincenter (99)
• Philippines
19 May 07
I don't think it's appropriate to do it in public -- considering that other people may not like the idea or be directly offended by it.
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