Your parents` s dreams about your perferct job

They don't force me, because I don't allow them to force me. They have big problems because my career as a writer doesn't bring in the money they'd like to see me bring in, and the other day my paternal grandfather told me I need to get "a real job" because he "always had one." Now I just ignore them.

My situation was totally different than yours. My parents did not care about my future at all. I had to live on my own since my age 16. They did not supported me in any way. So the parents are so different, as you can see. (My son is only seven years old, but I try to give every chance for him to try out. Now he wants to be a bus-constructor, so I try to help him in this way :) I let him do sport-activities regularly, I take him everywhere I can.) I do not want him to be a looser, but I am afraid I say this too often to him :) I think the parents have much more experience, than the children. And your parents want the best for you, or at least they want you to avoid those difficulties, that they had. What is the less bad if they care with you too much, or if they do not care with you at all? YOu know it is not easy to find the middle way. Anyway if you do not have any workexperience, you should accept every work. All kinds of workexperiences make you a wild spectrum person, that can help you in the better jobs.

ya my parents supports me a lot but i dont study well but i have a aim to be a software engineer and i will be in future !

I have to say that my mom has always encourage us kids to do whatever we wanted to do. As long as we were happy she was fine with the choices we made. There were a few times that when I would have to get some job just to make ends meet but my mom would tell me to do what I need to till I could find something I like better. I am appreciative to have the mother I have.

When I was young and I go to my dad's office he always tell his colleagues: "Hey, this is my daughter. She's going to be a doctor when she grows up." and "Hey, this is my son. he's going to be a lawyer and politician when he grows up." Well, I never dream of becoming a doctor, ever. I'm scared of needles and I cry when I see severely sick people especially those who are already old and sick. My mom doesn't really have any specific perfect job for me. She just wants me to finish college and find a decent and high paying job. What I wanted ever since is to become a flight attendant or something that includes touring and traveling and other fancy things. My dad supports me. He's not like pressuring me to do something he knows I don't like. He wants me to become a doctor but he knows even if I took the course, I wouldn't be happy and I wouldn't do good. My parents support whatever I want to be in life. I respect that and I'm happy that's why I'm doing my best to really finsih my college this year and find a really good job that would make them proud in the end.

I'm so sorry to know your condition.It's lucky for me to have the different kind of parents. My parents never forced me to do something, though I think they also didn't understand me. My advice is that you can talk with them, tell them what you want and need. Maybe it will be better.

are parents are supported ever since to everything that i wanted to do with my life. well of course, ev\xcept for those, that i know myself, unacceptable like acquiring a huge tattoo on my back. hehe.. seriously. my dreams are my parents dreams for me. fortune, popularity, power aren't what exactly they dream of me to have in the future. as long as it is for the good and respectful -- it's ok with them.

I know how frustrating that is, but if you are of age, you must do the jobs that suit you. You must live your own life. Don't ignore everything your parents say just because they are you parents though, they are not stupid and have lived life much longer than you have. They are just trying to make you learn from their mistakes or the mistakes of the people they know. In my case I am older the parent, I explained to my son the reasons I wanted him to do whatever, after that he made his own decision. Right now I am a writer, my family do not understand anything about writing or why I do it. They don't consider it a real job, but I don't care, it is very real for me and it makes me happy. My son and my fiance do understand and that is all th at counts.

suprisingly my parents are real supportive of my own plans and my choices on things, they do try and help to guide me and if i dont agree i just say so and they just dont worry about it. im there youngest of 6 so they have learnt to just try and reason and understand me.

Of course, I also think every parent dream about their child's perfect job. Think cooly.. Whatever your parents says is good for you. You want to think different & you want to do different that is good. But let it recognize your parent. I think they will appreciate it..

Most parents believe that they know what's best for their children. However, this premise is quite arguable, considering that teenage children themselves already have insights on what they would want of their future to be. In an ideal world, parents could only offer pieces of advice, but not the imposition or manipulation of their children's decision and future. After all, the abilities and interests of the young are the prime determinants of how and where a person would be in the future. Secondly, there is a need to look at the personality and behavioral factors concerning the adolescents, since these also pose a great impact on the course their planning or willing to take. Half-decided, they can be overpowered by the challenges ahead. Compelled without free will, they may end up quitting the plan or rebelling against authority. At the end of the day, communication is the best means to arrive at a consensus and a decision thereafter.

my parent's dream about my perfect job is being an administrative manager for a company. A simple one but will help me bring bread for my family. I was hoping to get a job like that but i'll try if there are some offers around. try and try until i die.. until i get what i want i will never lose.

All parent dreams big about their child career. Same goes to my parent. But, they support whatever I do and my job. They are sweet and nice. They kept reminding me that not everybody can be a manager, director or CEO. Be what you are and the most important thing that you must be happy with your job and life.

im very lucky to have parents who think they know what's best for me..cause if i did id be long gone by now..my parents try to support in everything i do..that's why we're very close..i pity those persons who have parents that are ambitiious cause theyre not free..their lives are constraint in the hands of their parents..

My mother and father were not very supportive of my dreams. I wanted to be a fashion designer. From the time I was a little girl, I was hand sewing or fashioning clothing for my dolls. I knew how to hand sew when I was 8. I taught myself. I taught myself how to draw and became very good at designing gowns and wedding gowns. That was my passion! I had a notebook full of designs I had kept hidden and I took them to my mother one day and told her this is what I wanted to be when I grew up. She told me to forget it and to try to get a normal job like a secretary or a nurse so I could have regular paychecks because jobs like this I would never make money because I wasn't that good at it and I didn't have the patience. I was heartbroken and my dreams were dashed. I did become a secretary and I have been ok with it. I am very good at organizing and I am very good at my job, but I regret not standing up for myself and following my dreams at any cost.

This is a tricky question for me. Most of the time, I really value my parents' advice. They are very supportive, but they can be a little overbearing when they think that they're right. I've learned though, that in the end, it is really your decision to make, and nothing they can really force you to do what you don't want to do. It just gets tiring to have to listen to them talk about it again and again even when you've made your decision. Now I try to think about it this way: that I'd rather have my parents disagree with me as to my choice of profession rather than choosing something that I know will make me miserable, and blaming them about it later.