do u think u r in love

India
October 22, 2006 2:51pm CST
these r the 18 signs of love You are comfortable and secure in your relationship. You trust that your partner won't hurt you and there is no need of suspicion or jealousy. You have remained together through good times and bad. Thoughtful things are done just because it makes both of you feel good. Neither of you make sacrifices, only compromises. Your significant other has told you of their deep feelings, and they are returned. Your affections for your partner make you feel special and good about yourself. When there is a fight, you usually make up after only a few hours and agree that nothing is more important than both of you expressing your true feelings, even if they cause conflict. You and your partner feel no need to test each others feelings or loyalties. You can be yourself when with your partner more so than anyone else. You've forgotten your ex. You can't stop thinking about your partner. You care about your significant other more than anything. You find your partners quirks charming. You have great chemistry. You don't notice others as much. You love spending time together. Other priorities take a backseat. You start thinking about your future together.
2 responses
@mridig (202)
• India
8 Jan 07
Jealousy typically refers to the thoughts, feelings, and behaviors that occur when a person believes a valued relationship is being threatened by a rival. The word jealousy stems from the French jalousie, formed from jaloux (jealous), and further from Low Latin zelosus (full of zeal), and from the Greek word for "ardour, zeal" (with a root connoting "to boil, ferment"; or "yeast"). Jealousy is a familiar experience in human relationships. It has been reported in every culture and in many forms where researchers have looked. [1] [2] [3] It has been observed in infants as young as 5-6 months old and in adults over 65 years old. [4] [5] [6] [7] It has been an enduring topic of interest for scientists, artists, and theologians. Psychologists have proposed several models of the processes underlying jealousy and have identified individual differences that influence the expression of jealousy. Sociologists have demonstrated that cultural beliefs and values play an important role in determining what triggers jealousy and what constitutes socially acceptable expressions of jealousy. Biologists have identified factors that may unconsciously influence the expression of jealousy. Artists have explored the theme of jealousy in photographs, paintings, movies, songs, plays, poems, and books. Theologians have offered religious views of jealousy based on the scriptures of their respective faiths. Despite its familiarity, however, people define jealousy in different ways. Some even mislabel it as being protective of something or someone, when the fact is, it's really simply possessive jealousy itself; and many feel they don't possess effective strategies for coping with this form of jealousy. [8]
@Tanya8 (1733)
• Canada
22 Oct 06
That's a good list. I've been married for 12 years, and everything on it still applies.