what will you do?

I'm not married and I'm a girl... But if I had a husband and he cheated on me with my best friend I would go out of my mind. I would probably get a divorce and move far away and cut off contact with the both of them. If I had kids I'd try to get sole custody of them.

My situation would be my best friend and my hubby? I would get an annulment/divorce with no questions asked. Dump my best friend for being a snake behind my back. Get over it coz they are just not worth it to waste my time feeling sad about it. I definitely dont deserve somebody like that.

Been there. This is how it goes- First, your best friend is NOT your friend. Second, there is a serious breach of vows, so your wife is NOT playing her part. Boot them both. Once a cheater, always a potential cheater. Trust that has been broken is like a welded piece of metal, never as strong and secure as it was before the break. Stay strong and stand on your principles.

I have had my previous boyfriend and my roommate have an affair while I was at work. I was so angry and hurt. She pretended to be my friend and he pretended nothing was going on. While I was at work, they were having a relationship. I left the relationship, being that I was the only one employed it wasn't long before they were living on the streets with nothing. I told them that they deserved everything they got. In another situation, my so called best friend and her husband talked my boyfriend into having a threesome. They asked me if it was ok and I was drunk and didn't really know what the heck they were talking about and I just said I wanted to go to sleep. They did it anyway. I could hear them in the next room. So I packed all of my things and then I couldn't find the key to my car and then the fight broke out. I went into a rage and beat him so badly he got a concussion. We are now married, I have forgiven him, but haven't forgotten. He said he loves me and that it was a big mistake of his own selfishness. The only reason I forgave him was because he was honest and got on his knees and begged me to not leave. He hasn't repeated the behavior since that episode and he is dedicated to me. Sometimes I wish it didn't happen and sometimes I am glad it did. It tested our relationship to the maximum.

Divorce!