is being jealous okay?

it really depends on how you react when you are jealous. do you quarrel with your lover or do you just ignored the fact and be silent about it... if its not that harmful i mean harmless jealousy then its ok. but too much of jealousy that would come to the point that it would change your view about your lover and trust is really slowly diminishing then that's something you should be alarmed of since its taking its toll and might destroy the relationship that you really hold on to.

Sure it can destory the relationship. It's good to be jealous but, you have to make limitations for it.

I thnk a small amount of jealousy is ok, I think it makes your partner feel wanted and appreciated int he fact you don;t want anyone else to be with them however it can easily get out of hand and if there is too much jealousy it can cause huge problems and the person feeling like they are smothered.