Fraternity....good or bad?

it hurts a lot... - In a fraterity there are rituals that are made to know if the member is thoughtful and is loyal to the group. It hurts but they just take everything in order to become a member.
Philippines
May 19, 2007 12:14am CST
Many of us people are wondering what are the reasons of students and every other person that come out to be a member of a gang,"Fraternity". We ask why do they take the chance to be a member of that said group of people, which we know that they are getting a lot bigger in number and have been reported to be a part of some cases, such as "rumble" and "group wars". Many of the youths who learned and had became a member of such any group are getting prone no getting "bust off" or more worse, get "killed". There are many reasons why they decide to join these groups, some are the following: -protection -friends -soscial companion .....this reasons had been given to me by my friends and nieghbors that had been a member of a group. Some of them are students and some of them are already working on big companies. In some cases of students, they become more aware on going out alone. Why? Because, they could be hunted by some member of the opposite group, which they called thier "enemy". Some the groups are registered in governments and some are not. Why do this kind of group really exist in our community? Can`t they just stop thier war and be united, so that both parties could help community problems, such as waste. They can help clean the sorroundings and do some tree planting, that could help and can make a difference.
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• Philippines
19 May 07
there are a lot of existing brotherhoods around us. when we choose to hang out with a particular at all times when we have free time, that is a form of brotherhood in itself. i don't see the point of needing to become a member of a group, called fraternity, in order to 'belong'. moreso, that is seems the disadvantages outweigh the advantages. the approved clubs in school is actually another form of brotherhood. it is better that we become members of these more fruitful clubs involving in sports and the academics or, other more fields of endeavor.
• Philippines
19 May 07
Yup,Yup,yup..... I think we can be more to have a "twin-agreement" on this thing. I mean, i do really like to do thing more on doing some that will have a good outcome in the end. Yeah, I really want that things to happen. Rather, than going and hanging with friends on "frat-brotherhoods", I think going out with your well-known friends wuld be the best on all out from the normal things that should be done, right? More on doing the "no-no", why not do the great thing. Go,go,go.... fight for your right!!! But, what if what do you call your right could be the "no-no" thing, will you have fun? Or regret at the end of all... Yeah, after they enter at this, they have been told of all the rules(the do`s and don`t`s), but even so..... these things are bad stuff, beter be an athlete or an artist than doing out these thing, right? Thanks for droppin` something...... -chill-
• Philippines
19 May 07
Yup,Yup,yup..... I think we can be more to have a "twin-agreement" on this thing. I mean, i do really like to do thing more on doing some that will have a good outcome in the end. Yeah, I really want that things to happen. Rather, than going and hanging with friends on "frat-brotherhoods", I think going out with your well-known friends would be the best on all out from the normal things that should be done, right? More on doing the "no-no", why not do the great thing. Go,go,go.... fight for your right!!! But, what if what do you call your right could be the "no-no" thing, will you have fun? Or regret at the end of all... Yeah, after they enter at this, they have been told of all the rules(the do`s and don`t`s), but even so..... these things are bad stuff, beter be an athlete or an artist than doing out these thing, right? Thanks for droppin` something...... -chill-