Who finds who?
By latisharking
@latisharking (82)
United States
May 19, 2007 2:57am CST
When you get with someone...are you the looker or the lookee? Do you find them? Do they find you? How do you think or like how they go about doing it? Are there places that you can think of that you would,or did like the best when you have or would be meeting that someone special? What attracts you to them? the outside/inside of them? Do you want them to be spiritual? Not so spiritual, don't care? You looking for Love or just companionship? Answer these and put in writing your own confirmations that your eyes will make your mind and heart more aware of. Blessings to all your endeavors to find your special whos best for you.^j^ Latisha
1 response
@wolves69 (755)
• United States
19 May 07
I never really thought about that before. I guess I'd be classified as a lookee. I've never went out of my way to find someone, but have gone out of my way to be extra nice, but that usually never got me a date. Most of the dates were the result of either a set up or the girl asking me and then I saw something in them that triggered an emotion.
What was the trigger...I guess it was different for each, but all had good hearts, and spontaneous. Come to think of it, all were great conversationalists/deep thinkers....Spiritually, we were similar.