Do you want a bf or gf?

I disagree. College is not a place for relaxing, but a place one starts to build his own future. A bf/gf is not for relaxation, either, but a person that would be willing to share your happiness and sorrows.

Well, this concerns emotion already and having girlfriend or boyfriend is not like buying something in the market and throwing after you find out you don't like or keeping in the ref just to freeze or whatever you will do on it. Even in High school you may find a gf/bf. Some would say they would find their partner because they are at their age, some because they want to have fun, some because they just found the person they really like to spend time together with. But put in mind that you need not consider all those things, this talks about the heart already and I guess you have to let your heart talk when it comes to this matter. Worry not being different in case you don't ask yourself to find a partner because it is a trend in college. No don't bother yourself about the trend. Just do what you want and what makes you happy, someone will just one day knock your door and appreciate you and later on love you...

I think college is about finding your true self. Being a young adult. No parents tell you when to be home, or what to eat, when to eat. Like going to school and being on your own. Girlfriend or Boyfriend really doesn't matter, but being yourself we bring you happiness and a girlfriend or boyfriend that enjoys you for whom you are. No girl or Guy likes a slacker in life. Everyone is looking for love and trying to find themselves at college. I hope you have fun.