Does (Or Will) Your Child Have A Part Time Job?
By someonesmom
@someonesmom (5761)
Canada
May 19, 2007 1:00pm CST
My daughter is almost 16, and has just gotten her first part time job. She's been hired by 'Wendy's,' and will begin her training next Friday. I've told her she can keep the job when school resumes in the fall, if her school work doesn't suffer. She's an excellent student, and very responsible.
At what age will you give your child(ren) permission to have a part time job?
Do they already have one? If so, where?
What will you base your decision on, when deciding to let them do this?
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15 responses
@Swtrose (3385)
• Canada
20 May 07
My daughter has been working sense she was 13. First babysitting and last summer she got a job in fast food restaurant. She has been there a year. She works part time during the school year and full time during the summer. She's almost 17. My son has been working sense he was 11 delivering papers. Now he does papers and cuts lawns. He is 13.
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@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
22 May 07
Good for your daughter. Mine has babysat since that age too, but this is her first job of this type. It's good to hear that she's handling her schoolwork along with this ... encouraging to me. Those are great first jobs that your son has too. Thanks for your response.
@sunshine4 (8703)
• United States
19 May 07
I feel it is very important for children to get part time jobs. My oldest who is 18 now was going nowhere when he was 14. He sat in front of the tv and played games all day. He did ok in school, but didn't try. He was not in sports or any activities. So I told him to go out and find a job. He didn't know where to go, so I took him to the local pizza shop. They first hired him to hand out flyers, then dishwasher, then he moved up. He worked there until this year and he ended up being one of the better workers there. They were very sad to see him go.
So when my second son was almost 15 and soaking me dry from needing money all the time, I suggested he go to the pizza palor and see if he could get a job. He is very invloved in sports and his studies, but they hired him for Sundays only. They just added Thursday nights too. He now never asks me for money.
My 13 yr old wants a job too. He just started working for the neighbor trimming his hedges and mowing lawns. It gives them the responsibility and accountablility with their money.
@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
22 May 07
That's wonderful about your son, and sometimes it just takes 'a little push' to get them going. It's great too, that your oldest son paved the way for his younger brother at the pizza shop. The type of job that your youngest has is a good place to start for him. My daughter started out as a babysitter when she was that age. Thanks for your response.
@34momma (13882)
• United States
20 May 07
when my son turned 16 i told him that he had to get a part time job. he need to know that money doesn't grow on trees and earn his own money. i told him he had three months to do so and in three months he did it. it has been over a year and his is about to graduate HS. he is doing so wonderful. he has been putting away $20 away a week to go towards his graduation, and money into his saving account. i think they should work. and feel that wonderful feeling of making their very own money.
@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
23 May 07
I think your son's (and my daughter's) ages are totally appropriate for starting a part time job. That's great that your son's been working since then, and managing to save some of his income too. First jobs definitely bring about a sense of accomplishment (I recall), and there's the thrill of receiving that first pay as well. I appreciate your response.
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@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
23 May 07
Thanks again, 34momma. We moms 'should' be proud of our kids. I'm proud of my daughter too (for many reasons), but also because of her upcoming job. She's very determined to succeed, and plans on doing her best. Have a great day.:)
@sweeetkisses2 (269)
• United States
20 May 07
yes i will let her have one. mine is only 8 but when she gets 16 the no problem she can have one atleast it keeps them out of trouble.
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@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
23 May 07
I think sixteen is a good age to start out in a job of this type sweeetkisses2. My daughter is a really 'good kid,' but now that she's a bit older, I don't want her to start 'just hanging out' at the mall etc. with her friends. I definitely want her to spend time with friends, but think that this will help balance things out, and especially during the summer. Thanks for sharing.
@Twinklele (1)
• Singapore
20 May 07
Personally, I feel that doing part time job is good for teenage as it helps to let them understand a little more about the working world! Before they really start a full time job and meeting the ends in the future to come.
@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
23 May 07
I agree with you Twinklele. I think 'older' teens especially need to have this experience. It'll make things easier for them in the future, when they have to join the workforce fulltime. Thanks for your response, and welcome to myLot.
@GeorgiaPeachie (66)
• United States
20 May 07
I won't require my child to and I hope that finances make it where they don't have to during the school year. I think teenagers need to have time for extracurricular activities and sports. And then just hanging out with friends. They don't need to give up everything for money. That is what I did because my parents made me pay for everything and it just wasn't worth it.
@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
23 May 07
I didn't tell my daughter she 'had' to get a job, but she really wants this herself. She's involved in lots of extracurricular activities, so I hope she can balance these out with her work hours. If she's given too many hours, we've already discussed how she'll have to ask for a few less. As a single mom, since my daughter was two, I've looked after everything for her, and now that she's older, the two of us will 'work together' to keep our household running. She has lots of friends she still needs to spend time with too. Thanks for your response, and welcome to myLot.
@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
22 May 07
All the best to your son in finding his summer job. I hope these positions work out for both of our kids, and don't turn out to be too much to handle. Thanks for your response.
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
20 May 07
I think when they ask for one is appropriate.
My son used to go for errands for the neighbours, and put out trash for extra spending money at 10,
then he got a paper route at 12
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@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
22 May 07
That's true winterose, if they're asking to have a job, then they're usually ready. Those are all good starting out jobs for kids the age of your son at the time. Thanks, as always.:)
@crazynurse (7482)
• United States
20 May 07
My children all had part time jobs at 15. They each started at a grocery store as bag boys (my daughter was a cashier). My oldest worked there until leaving for college. My others didn't like that work and went on to be servers at Bob Evans. The job has never interferred with their schoolwork. Should it ever interfere I would make them stop! I didn't make them work, they wanted to! I am glad becasue since they started working for money they sure have changed their attitudes about what things cost and what is worth the money and what isn't!
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@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
23 May 07
These are really great jobs for kids to have. My daughter would have to stop too, if she's too exhausted, or it interferes with her schoolwork. Like your kids, my daughter has chosen to get a job all on her own, which makes 'my job' as her mom, all the more easy. I'm sure she'll learn what's a waste of money as well, when she's worked hard for it. Thanks for sharing.
@inked4life (4224)
• United States
20 May 07
My kids are 7 and 9 and are small enough at the moment that they can easily handle their chimney sweeper duties in relative comfort...LOL. I think it's a good thing for kids to have a part time job, so long as it doesn't interfere with school. I certainl;y won't force my kids to have a job but would like to see them go that route.
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@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
22 May 07
A lot of people here agree that it's a good thing. I think it's still important in this day and age, as kids need to learn what it's like to have to pay their own way, for some things. I'm glad my daughter decided on her own that she wanted to look for a part time job. Thanks for sharing.
@KissThis (3003)
• United States
20 May 07
I got my first job when I was 11. I started working in a family restaurant with my mom. I plan on my children getting a part time job as well. I am not sure at what age I will allow them to get one. I guess it will depend on the child and how well they are able to coop with everything. I think that its a good learning lesson for them to have a part time job before they leave school.
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@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
22 May 07
It's great for anyone who has a family business like that, as it's a safe place for them to work at that age. I'm glad in the case of my daughter, that she waited the extra year to find a job. She wanted one last summer, but has matured so much more in the past year. Thanks for your response.
@wachit14 (3595)
• United States
20 May 07
My son started working when he was around fifteen by babysitting, tutoring and giving guitar lessons. He got his first real paying job when he was seventeen by working in a sleep away camp as a junior counselor. Now he is going back this year as a senior counselor. He did work at a store during the holidays, but he had to put in so many hours that after a few months he asked if he could quit because of school and I of course said yes. My fifteen year old daughter hasn't had a job yet, but she wants one so she can earn money for shopping so maybe this summer she will look for something, but like you, it cannot interfere with school in the fall.
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@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
22 May 07
These are all great jobs that your son's had. Camp counselling can be lots of fun, as I did a bit of that when I was young. That's mature of your son to realize that his schoolwork comes first. I believe my daughter will think the same way, although she hopes to be able to keep this job in the fall. She's very involved in extra curricular activities at school, and her grades are important too, so I hope she won't 'burn out' from too much pressure. Best wishes to your daughter, on finding a summer job. Thanks for sharing.
@4cuteboys (4099)
• United States
20 May 07
I'd say 14 is probably the youngest I would let my kids get a part time job, but only if it didn't interfere with their schoolwork. As long as they are responsible and able to keep up the school work I wouldn't have a problem with it. If they were exhausted all the time though, I would hope they would want to quit and just do the school and after school activities if they have any.
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@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
23 May 07
Fourteen is young enough for sure, when it comes to working for an 'actual' employer, unless there are special circumstances involved. My daughter did some babysitting before this, but only for people we knew well. I also know of some kids who do 'odd jobs,' but for family members etc. at a younger age. In the case of my daughter, I just hope she doesn't find it too exhausting once school's back in the fall, along with all of her other activities, schoolwork etc. Thanks for sharing.
@eachen2002 (889)
• United States
20 May 07
A job can give kids a sense of worth.It's worth exploring as long as doesn't interupt school or cause problems.It has advantages like learning skills and earning money and better than them hanging out at the mall or at home playing games all day.
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@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
23 May 07
I agree with you eachen2002. It's a valuable way for kids to increase their skills, and learn to be a part of a team too. Your last point is a valid one as well, as I don't permit my daughter to just 'hang out' at the mall, with no specific purpose at her age.
@sunshinelady (7609)
• United States
19 May 07
I don't think it is the age so much as whether your child is responsible enough or not to hold down a part time job. Not all kids are. A child would have to show me that they are responsible by accepting certain responsiblities at the house. When school started back up if the grades start to decline than I would have to have a talk with the child and explain to them that school is more important and since the job is affecting the school work that the job has got to go. I don't have kids at home now but I did have a child who is now grown and has a family of his own.
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@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
22 May 07
You make a valid point about some kids not being responsible enough, as they all mature at their own pace. My stepson was only 12 (many years ago now) when he 'begged' his dad for a summer job. As it turned out, he did really well with this, and behaved most responsibly. My daughter has definitely proved her responsibility around home, and at school as well, so am trusting her job will work out for her. Thanks for your response.