If someone you met on myLot were to tell you that they were going to.....

No i wouldnt. Especially on Mylot. To me Mylot is a huge forum. On other forums I visit i ge to know people and talk to people but here i'm just talking to ramdomers without actually knowing anyone. Thus i wouldnt trust someone from Mylot.

I would definitely ask to meet someone from mylot passing through my town. Of course, there isn't much to go TO if you're passing through my town, since it's kind of on a peninsula. =P If it was someone I had talked to a lot, I would probably invite them to my home, but I would ask my husband for his opinion first. We're kind of over-cautious, so it would be something we would have to think about first. But there are a couple of people on here that I have talked to enough that I would definitely trust them to come to my home. If I were the one traveling, I would ask if they wanted to meet up for dinner or something. I wouldn't ask to come by their house though, I would wait for them to invite me. However, if they did invite me, and it was someone I felt I knew well, I would go.

I have a lot of "friends" that I really like here on Mylot but I would still be very wary of actually meeting up with anyone or inviting them to my house. You can't really know someone just by the few discussions we respond to on here and I have major trust issues so I'd probably pass or meet at a neutral venue with a bunch of my friends there too.

Yes I have to admit there are a few people on mylot and on my friends list that I would gladly extend the hand of friendship on this level. In fact if I ever get the opportunity to do so I will. As far as asking for an invitation to their homes, that I would never do. I would tell them I will be in their area and if the offer is not presented, I would be a bit disappointed but I would understand. Not everyone would have the relationship take this type of turn, for me though I enjoy it and have indeed meet a few of my on line friends in person and enjoy a greater friendship because of it.

I would love to meet some of my myLot friends if they were traveling through my area. I do not think that I would want them to come to my house though. We have a construction project (seems like more of a destruction) going on here, and things are pretty torn up. I would not want to have anyone see my house looking like it does right now, especially not as a first impression. I would love to have them meet me somewhere locally though. We could go out to a local restaurant, or maybe out for karaoke. If I were going to be traveling the area where they lived, I might ask if they wanted to meet somewhere. I would never ask about coming to their home, but would wait for an invitation.

Would I meet them? Sure. Would I let them in my home? Absolutely not. If you want to meet them, arrange a meeting in a public place like Starbucks or McDonald's. Most people on the Internet are nice, but there are a few that you have to watch out for. I would also never ask to drop by someone's house if I have never met them. Things are just too dangerous now.

I have a few mylot friends I would love to meet but some of them are at the other side of the world so it's unlikely. I have a 3 mylot friends coming over at different times this summer and it's going to be lovely!

For me, it would depend on who it is. That depends. I came to MyLot along with seven other people from another forum we all met at. Well, now - it's a total of seven instead of eight because one of them passed away last week. Anyway, I have also met other friends that I interact with regularly, in their discussions, & via messages. We know each other well enough that we know what types of discussions are liked by who, & sometimes, in addition to responding to them, we also mention it to each other so they can also respond. Or, if it's not my type of subject, I'd send a message to those who would be interested. If one of those people that I feel I know pretty well was passing through my area, I would probably meet them for coffee or lunch. I do have a few who actually live near me that I would also meet for coffee or lunch. As to coming into the house, the place is untidy, & I normally wouldn't have anyone come in. If they happened to be staying in a hotel or motel near me, I might head out there if invited to do so. However, it depends on which MyLot member it is. It is also not wise to choose the best response the same hour that you started a discussion.

I sure would ask to meet them! I'm just as real on paper as i am in life. As for the phonies and the dangerous ones, i can take care of myself. Take care APMorison.

If it was one of my friends on here then yes I'd meet with them. I'm not sure about at my house but I'd want to meet them at a restaurant and then go from there. After I've met them and talked with them for a while then I'd probably invite them back but who knows. One can never tell really by what we see on the internet after all and I've gotten more cautious in my old age. I think the same would go if I was the one traveling. I'd see about meeting them at like a Denny's or something like that. See what happens after that.

i never really thought of that, but there are maybe two or three people on here that i would invite to my home and i would go to theirs. that would be really nice to have a few mylotters over for dinner or a weekend

I would love to have a few of mylot friends pop in for a visit. If I were invited by one of them , I would absolutely go and have a coffee and a chat in person. I think it would be a lovely idea!

If someone here , would send me a private messege telling me that he or she is going o come to my country, then i would surely be more then happy to invite him to my house and show him or she israel. I know that a person that i am not comfortable with and a person that is not comfortable with me, will never think of sharing this information with me, if we would not have a good connection, and a good friendship. So sure i would be more then glad to meet him or her, and have him or her in my house.

My answer to these requirements are NO. I have posted my photos online so that everyone can see my real profile.If someone asks me to meet him/her,I will tell him/her that you have known my real profile,and I don't think you need to meet me in reality.I just want to communicate with you online,but not in reality.Life online and life in reality are quite different.I won't mingle them with each other.

I have a few mylot friends that i keep in touch with off of mylot and if they told me they were coming to my town i would definitely want to meet them.Theres no harm to go have lunch or something like that.

There are several folks on myLot that I would love to meet in person! If they were going to be in my town, I would suggest meeting them at a local cafe or restaraunt. I would expect the same from them if I were teh one traveling to their town. To go to someone's house is a HUGE step and one just can't be too sure this day and time. I would not meet them alone either. I would have hubby with me! But I most definitely would love to meet some of them!

Oh no. No way would i let a stranger i my house. I may meet them in a public place and with other people there. I'd inist on them taking someone too cause you never know what could happen.

I love being able to talk here on mylot and have people that I look for but I don't think you can know someone that well to let them come to your house. Now if they wanted to meet somewhere else just to meet them I would probably say yes.

Probably not unless you got to know the person well enough. You have no idea who you are meeting. After several discussions, I might be inclined to give a person my phone nember if they wanted to talk more. At a later time after talking a lot with the person, I would still strongly weigh the motives of a person who wanted to meet me. I'm a man so it's hard to say because I don't understand what it's like to be stalked or anything like that. Not that some men aren't stalked. That and I'm lazy and don't ever pass through town. I think we should take more interest in the friends we might miss out on who we already see everyday.

I enjoy Mylot and a I enjoy making new friends through the discussions, but as for meeting them in person...I really don't know.....It is totally different when we communicate by post rather than meet each other face to face. I mean there are so many things to concider before actually accepting an invitaion like that! I don't know how to answer this discussion.....I guess I would simply say; "it would depend"