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I think we need to quit whining and crying "child abuse" everytime a parent spanks their kids. Everyone is so "emmotional" now. That and we are to busy. Everyone is doing something now and at the sametime. No one wants to stop, sit down, talk, play, or get to know their children. And why should they? With tv, computer games, game systems, and other electronics, parents don't seem as concerned. Somebody else will take care of it. As a society, we are to involved in everyone elses lives and not enough in our own. Parents need to start acting like parents and not just as keepers.

I think it's because children don't get attention from their parents. Many parents feel like their children are inconvenient and try to fit them into their lifestyle, when really one should adapt to the lifestyle of being a parent. My old neighbor thought that she shouldn't have to change anything once she was a mother, so she still partied, sat her son in front of the television all day while she talked on the phone-this kid is violent now! I always wonder why people suggest that we spank our children to discipline them when they are like that. Hitting teaches children to hit. My nephew is spanked, when he gets mad at my son, he'll hit him! He's only 3 years old and he's already modelling this behavior. I believe the link below http://www.askdrsears.com/html/6/t062100.asp HITTING MODELS HITTING There is a classic story about the mother who believed in spanking as a necessary part of discipline until one day she observed her three- year-old daughter hitting her one-year-old son. When confronted, her daughter said, "I'm just playing mommy." This mother never spanked another child.Children love to imitate, especially people whom they love and respect. They perceive that it's okay for them to do whatever you do. Parents, remember, you are bringing up someone else's mother or father, and wife or husband. The same discipline techniques you employ with your children are the ones they are most likely to carry on in their own parenting. The family is a training camp for teaching children how to handle conflicts. Studies show that children from spanking families are more likely to use aggression to handle conflicts when they become adults. Spanking demonstrates that it's all right for people to hit people, and especially for big people to hit little people, and stronger people to hit weaker people. Children learn that when you have a problem you solve it with a good swat. A child whose behavior is controlled by spanking is likely to carry on this mode of interaction into other relationships with siblings and peers, and eventually a spouse and offspring. But, you say, "I don't spank my child that often or that hard. Most of the time I show him lots of love and gentleness. An occasional swat on the bottom won't bother him." This rationalization holds true for some children, but other children remember spanking messages more than nurturing ones. You may have a hug-hit ratio of 100:1 in your home, but you run the risk of your child remembering and being influenced more by the one hit than the 100 hugs, especially if that hit was delivered in anger or unjustly, which happens all too often. Physical punishment shows that it's all right to vent your anger or right a wrong by hitting other people. This is why the parent's attitude during the spanking leaves as great an impression as the swat itself. How to control one's angry impulses (swat control) is one of the things you are trying to teach your children. Spanking sabotages this teaching. Spanking guidelines usually give the warning to never spank in anger. If this guideline were to be faithfully observed 99 percent of spanking wouldn't occur, because once the parent has calmed down he or she can come up with a more appropriate method of correction.

Sure, I work with teens and I definitely think there are more emotional problems. That being said, want to know why it is happening? It is happening because adults have more problems and they are being pushed off on the kids. If you look at a newspaper or watch the news, the things adults are doing are just insane. Kids learn what they live and I would not want to see what life some kids are living. Just my thought...

They do not have emotional problems, it is lack of discipline, society, media and the glamourization of violence, lack of programs. They are suffering from low self-esteem, no self awareness and lost of identity.

I think kids need proper guidence since birth particularly from parents,if parenting is good they would not dare to render harm.As in childhood they aren't fully mature so moral,polite and behavioural guidence should be emphasised.