will you live with youer parents or not after get married
By Hydale
@Hydale (206)
China
May 19, 2007 9:25pm CST
I plan to marry the next year.
Do you choose to live with your parents or not?
what's your opinion?
IF you've got marrid,which did you prefer to?why?
2 responses
@wonderful1 (2075)
• China
20 May 07
I don't want to live with my parents,but I will live in the same city with them. They are too old to look after themselves if they are ill.
Now I live in a different city with my parents. At first, I feel very glad that I can live in my way, but now I miss them very much, we have to take 36 hours by train to see each other. It is too far. Now I havent seen my dad for 4 years and my mom for 2 years. Two years ago, my mom went to my city to see me. She becomes older.
so now i hope you can live in the same city with your parents but not in the same house.
@NatashaG (100)
• United States
20 May 07
My husband and I were living together when we got engaged, so when we mentioned moving back to my hometown(about an hour away from our town), my parents offered for us to come stay with them. We lived with them for about nine months. Three before our wedding and then six after. My parents offered because they wanted us to save money. They also knew that my husband would be joining the military and didn't want me having to worry about making rent every month. We finally have a home by ourselves.. even if it's still a rental.. we are so glad to be alone without our parents.
It really depends on your financial situation if you should live with your parents or not. It's nice to not have to answer to them about your plans and what not.. And it's nice to be able to have people over if you want with out having to ask permission.