My boyfriend is angry only because of my replies are too late..

@SatoNa (247)
Indonesia
May 20, 2007 12:09am CST
MY boyfriend and I have long distance relationship. That's why I always communicate with him by SMS. And now, my boyfriend is getting angry again, only because I reply his SMS too late. I've already told him that I was chatting with my friend in Yahoo Messenger about web hosting. so, I was focusing on that and didn't heard my SMS ring tone, because my SMS ring tone is only 1 second and low volume.. But he didn't understand me and still angry and told me that I didn't make him the priority of my life. and also he told me that I never respect and thank for him, because he always makes me the priority of his life. I'm so sad and don't know what to do. I just wonder why he doesn't understand me.. he is different from me.. he likes being alone, and I don't. and I have a lot of activities that I want to do for fulling my spare time. so.. I sometimes forget to check my new SMS.. I'm confuse now.. What do I have to do? "
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5 responses
@swatig (1183)
• India
20 May 07
hw romantic it is.....everything will be allright. dnt worry. keep the feeling for him intact.
@SatoNa (247)
• Indonesia
20 May 07
Ya.. I hope so.. thx very much.. ^-^
• Philippines
20 May 07
it's not your problem girl. if he really loves you he would understand your situation. why dnt you try to manage your time. tell him what time the both of you can talk or send an SMS to each other. if he told you that you are his priority in life y dnt you ask him what would happen to both of you if all your focus is in your relationship. how about the other things like your studies? and i guess you have also your responsibilities in your home. y dnt you tell him that one
@SatoNa (247)
• Indonesia
20 May 07
well.. I will try to ask for discussion about the time.. thank for your suggestion. It's very useful.. =)
@magica (3707)
• Bulgaria
20 May 07
Your boyfriend misses tolerance and respect to your feelings and daily activities. You cant be a robot or autoresponder! Many people do multiple things when they chat and this is something normal. If he is angry, leave him alone to be angry and wellcome again when he is in better mood!
@SatoNa (247)
• Indonesia
20 May 07
yah.. maybe because he has different life from me. so he can't understand me.. btw.. thx for replying and your suggestion.. ^^
@sreevasu (2717)
• India
20 May 07
Nothing to blame him. He must be eagerly waiting for your reply. If you love him so much you should be ready to leave everything and reply him.
@SatoNa (247)
• Indonesia
20 May 07
ya.. I feel guilty too. but I'm so awful because I replied his SMS about 8 minutes after he SMS me.. it's not too late, isn't it? And he sometimes did like me.. but I didn't complain about it.. so why he complained? Y___Y btw.. thx for replying.. ^^
• Sri Lanka
20 May 07
how long has this guy been ur boyfriend?? well these are not things u should worry abt.. they happen on n off.. i am a guy n i too had a long distance relationship wit my now wife.. we kept having these kinds of issues.. u just need to pomise tht it wont happen again..
@SatoNa (247)
• Indonesia
20 May 07
I have been with her for almost 2 years.. well.. I can't promise like that. I'm afraid that it will make him more angry if I do it again. because if I was focussing on 1 things, I can forget another else.. "