re-married

I think a lady who has been divorced once will never want to fall into hell again, I mean to get married again. She may be forced to do it only if she is not independent and their is nobody to look after her children. If her children are big then she should not marry but start looking for some work because soon her children will be able to look after themselves. But if her children are too small and she is still too young and has long lonely life ahead then she should think of getting married but with a very careful decision. Step fathers are not always proved as good fathers. She should see that the person she is marrying will not create any problems for her children. I would say if she is working women and can look after her children, then she should not fall in t marriage again. By the way is she aware of rules about getting some money from her ex- hubby for bringing up her children. I am sure there are some rules about this. It is not right that mother kills herself for her children and father just does not care.