HEART or MIND?

I suggest to use both not only in choosing a love one but in everytime your trying to make the decision. Your mind will tell you what's logical and your heart will tell you what's moral. So you have to balanced and combined both to arrive at the most sound decision.

I think we have to use our mind before choosing anyone as your love. The person must be analysed properly to see whether he/she is fit for you. This decision can be taken only by your mind and not heart. If you choose the right person then later can go your heart out to say all those things which you might have told to your love.

i think what the mind reacts to the heart will follow. I fall in love with the mind of the person and my heart follows on from this blessed be

I think as we become wiser older adults we start to not allow the heart to rule the mind. I think when we are younger we go into it heart first, therefore don't always make wise decisions. Then again I know many adults that let their heart rule their relationships. I love my husband with my heart and mind.