Woman's instinct

@huilee (1005)
Singapore
May 20, 2007 7:35am CST
I feel that my boyfriend dun loves me anymore... My instinct... Which is quite accurate... At least most of the time... I have been crying non stop since two hours ago... Love is hard to understand... =(
3 responses
• Philippines
20 May 07
Your know what, I had the same experience. Everytime my boyfriend does not act all sweet and caring, I would think that he does not feel the same way anymore. I would cry a lot too. But I realized that its not true, he's just busy with work... Sometimes we feel insecure and doubtful, its normal in a relationship, but don't let your instinct or your emotions be the judge. It would be unfair for him. Talk to him to straighten things out. P.S. The boyfriend I was referring to is now my husband. We're happily married. :-)
@huilee (1005)
• Singapore
20 May 07
congrats... i hope i can be as happy as u... i know i am emo and thinks alot... i cannot help not thinking about the negative things... i dunno how... i wanna be happy... with him too... yet all the negative thought emerge though i noe hes not such a person... =(
@milagre (1272)
• Portugal
20 May 07
instead of crying, why dont you ask him what he really fell for you? what can you lose knowing the answer if you already think it will be a bad answer? stand up, be strong and ask, dont just fell pity about yourself. Depending on the answer you can go forward. Whish you all the best
@huilee (1005)
• Singapore
20 May 07
thank you... guess im behaving cowardly about this... i guess i do love him, n i need him... i will... be brave and strong... one day... thanks for the advice...
@PsychoDude (2013)
• Netherlands
20 May 07
Have you tried talking to him about it? Since instinct isn't really the thing I'd go by here if I were you.
@huilee (1005)
• Singapore
20 May 07
Yesh, in fact i did... Hes not the one he used to be anymore... I used to be his life... N now... He doesnt even cares... He used to care alot... Maybe far too much and im really feeling sad without his love... How can anyone be so cruel? I dun understand what is love...