he left me and stay with my friend

The best revenge I ever got on my cheating ex... was to move on and be happy! Dont look back matey, just move on, he will eventually do it to her aswell and she will have one less friend to turn to.

if he is dumb enough to leave you for your friend, he isnt worth your time, plain and simple, and your friend isnt worth it either if they can do that to you behind your back!

Ohh sweety!! Im soo sorry to hear that!! I have been there,donethat and wrote a few books..:( I was with my ex of 7 years and a year before we were getting married.,.he met a girl names April(same name as mine..what a coinky dink!!!!) but we all became good friends..then he started acting weird..and taking long drives with her..and working LOTS OF OVER TIME..but i just gave him the benefit of the doubt..well one day i came home..and was gonna make a great dinner and celebrate the day and year that we met..well i caught them bumpin uglies!! i was soo pi$$ed! I kicked her a$$ and threw him out,.,i was hurt for a very very long time..just make sure you have friends and family around you alot..idont know what i would have done without them.,.and though it made me stronger..i wont lie to you,,it wil hard and painful..and its been almost 8 yrs now..and though im pretty much over him..i stillmiss him..but i have moved on..hun..if u ever need to talk..i just want u to know im here for ya..im on til about 3 am every night in Pennsylvania time..take care!

I think that man doesn't deserve your tear. It's just so shame that he cheats you. Please don't feel sad for such kind of man, you will find someone better than him. As to your friend, it's wrong for her and I don't think her selection is correct. One day this man may be tired of her, too. Then she will lose love and the friendship. It's not right to steal someone's love.

Remember, things happen for a reason. Don't let the pain bring you down, use the pain to make you stronger. You have the right to get angry but don't let it consume you. Learn to forgive...

What I may say will sound a bit ridiculous, but hang on with me here. One, there are three problems here, your man, your so called friend, and your own response. Your man (oops, ex) is actually a coward that seems to have taken advantage of the situation. I don't think of him as much of a man in that standing - I know he was a man to you but he proves otherwise thus far. Your friend is an envious person who used your naivety as a way of collecting crucial information and a foot in the door so to speak. As for yourself, one you include too much of your couple information to your friends - remember, what is between the two is between the two unless you want that to change. Furthermore, you seem to be more from a point of view of a reactor and not a responder. I believe that one should prepare oneself for the worst case scenario so as to have a proper response when the time is right. I am not saying be persimistic, but am hoping you have a game plan for all your interactions in life. So, know first what you want, evaluate the consequenses attached to it, review differend end scenarios and their possible responses, and finally go for it. Hope for the best recovery....