What makes a good mother?

Philippines
May 20, 2007 5:13pm CST
We all have mothers everywhere, it could be your mom, wife, boss, secretary etc... Yes , we have an idea of what a good mother is, lucky for those who have one but what about those who doesn't? I myself am a mother of two kids, I try to be the best hands-on mom for them and I hope to keep it that way. This is the most important role I play in my life and will always cherish the opportunity of becoming one. Mothers were not created equal, how about you, what is a good mother to you?
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• United States
22 May 07
I think a good mom is someone who is there for their child no matter what.There's no such thing as the perfect mom but as long as any mother tries to raise her child the best she can..well then that's a good mother in my opinion.Motherhood is about trials and errors.You just have to see what works and what doesn't.
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@ecogal (522)
• United States
22 May 07
I wish I was a better mom. I'm not sure what makes a good mom. My mom is a good mom, but she hasn't always been....I think I mom like my mom momed.
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@lquiambao (109)
• Philippines
21 May 07
This is what a good mother is to me..... "M" is for the Million things she gave me "O" means Only that she is growing old "T" is for the Tears she shed to save me "H" is for her Heart of purest gold "E" is for her Eyes, with love-light shining "R" means Right, and right she'll always be Put them all together, they spell "MOTHER" A word that means the world to me. - Howard Johnson
• United States
20 May 07
Good mother? Good question! In todays day and age those answers come in a wide variety...there are so many answers for what a good mom does...and doesn't do. You can also define a good mom by the things a good mom used to be 10 to 20,or even 50 years ago. Being a good parent takes many ways,and teachings. We can't just have a child and poof we are a good mom or dad,we grow and learn right along with the child.Yes mistakes are made,but blessed we are when they are not too BIG. A good woman is described real well in Proverbs 31:10-31 Amen
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• United States
21 May 07
To put it simply, a good mother is one who puts her child's best interest first, before her personal discomfort, before petty hangups, before selfish desires. A good mother is one who will sacrifice in order to give her child the best if need be. A good mother makes decisions that are right for her CHILD, not "what works for ME." A good mother learns from her mistakes, and does not let guilt and pride prevent her from moving forward and making necessary changes in her parenting style.
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