How did i get in the middle of all this?
By mssnow
@mssnow (9484)
United States
May 20, 2007 6:36pm CST
I guess part of it was my fault but now i just want it o go away. I want to start over and forget about all this stuff we are going through. I wish I didn't find out the things i know now. But I did and it wont change. My mind is so confused at the moment.Too much stuff all at once. I need to sit and take it all in. I am a very nice person. Everyone who knows me knows i wont hurt a flea. (literally) lol. I come here to have fun and be with my friends. Thats all i want to do. I dont care about all the drama and bad things going on here. From now on , Ill just stay quiet and wont get into any arguments. I know now i cant win any of them anyways. I would like to go back to just being a good sweet snow who everyone likes. Can i do that please? lol
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20 responses
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
21 May 07
Snow I think a lot of People have to digest what has come out in the open I for one have been here since October and have seen a lovely Site like this been taken over by Members that Join who out to ruin this Site
There is a lot more going on believe me and I just hope that it will stop before they wreck mylot I really do
I would hate to see this Site go as it has certainly helped me over the Months specially my Friends on here
But yes Sweetie sit back and just stay out of it I do not blame you
@smuggeridge (2148)
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21 May 07
Yep you can now get on with enjoying mylot again, all the arguing discussions have been deleted (with the exception of one) and it has all now been brought to an end. So now to get back to finding out everyones favourite type chocolate
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@smuggeridge (2148)
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21 May 07
interesting question i would have to go for Lindor from Lindt, they are really nice chocolates with a beutiful soft centre. Making me hungry as i speak
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@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
21 May 07
Oh no, what happened. i have read most of your discussions and u seem to always be nice. We all have the right to speak our mind, so do not let this or these people get to you =)
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@lordwarwizard (35747)
• Singapore
21 May 07
Yes, just leave the dang thing. Open the windows and have a fresh breath of air. Life is renewed. ;P
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@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
21 May 07
I saw your responses in someone's discussions about a banned user. You were defending someone but you were not harsh at those who talked bad about her, sounds fair to me.
You can't be friends with everybody and sometimes those who claim as your friends, they really are not or they are harsh at others. How would you know this, if nobody told you?
I don't know fifty much, I saw her discussions, seemed harmless. But anyway I don't have access to her pms and it's impossible to read through all her discussions so there is no way to find out what kind of person she really is. I just hope mylot is being fair all this time and I hope you feel better now.
@mssnow (9484)
• United States
21 May 07
I am never harsh mel i say what i need to without calling names or anything else. I get my point across. I just get tired of it after a while. I still consider fifty my friend. She has done nothing to me to change my mind. I do feel better now , I have some great friends here that includes you Hugs.
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@charms88 (7538)
• Philippines
21 May 07
Hi snow, you are not in my list of friend, but I always enjoy seeing your discussions. I understand fully well what you are talking about. I've seen what's going on around since yesterday. It seems to have mellow down a bit now. And I do hope it will continue to stay that way. Everyone have said their piece and its time to move on. I hope to see more of your lovely discussions in the next coming days.
@PurpleTeddyBear (6685)
• Canada
21 May 07
Awwwwww I'm sorry to hear that things got out of control with a friend hun. You have always been very nice to me and I still consider you the same sweet as pie Snow I've always cared about! *hugzz* take care!
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@gardengrrl (1445)
• United States
21 May 07
Consider yourself "pure as the driven" in my book! Sorry for whatever happened, I'll go peep later, but it caused you distress, so it sucked! I hope this hurt passes and you can feel safe to put forth your thinking w/o worry again. Meanwhile, big hug to you!
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@yxinxin (467)
• China
21 May 07
Oh, no! mssnow,I understand you, I know you feel down. But I see everybody loves you here, including me,your new friend. If it is wolfie, I hve told you to wait patiently, he is sure to come back. If you must leave too,do come back when you feel better. I am always here waiting for you.
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@matrixx (254)
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21 May 07
I really don't know what happened to you and perhaps can never know that. I don't know either why my other friend was banned or deleted. It's too frustrating when someone can't even know a thing about all the situation. Being in darkness is really painful. But you shouldn't be what you are not. Just go ahead and be yourself, mssnow. I know it hurts when one argues and someone comes back with name calling or abusing but one should never be quiet when it's about friends and values. I don't what i am typig but i won't like to let nice people like you to go or change.
You are a nice person and I love you the way you are or you have been:-)
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@mssnow (9484)
• United States
21 May 07
thank matrixx. I will always try to be a good friend. but there is a point just get out. I decided to get out. i will defend my friends for as long as i can though. I am a very loyal person. I don't judge based on things that others say or even things they bring up. There are reasons behind them and you have to see the whole picture.
@hollowheart (1572)
• India
21 May 07
Hi Snow. I really dont know what makes u feel so low. well if u did something wrong, make sure u dont repeat it. We wouls all consider u a good friend and try to help u as much as possible. Just feel free to express to us so that we may correct u incase if u r wrong and vice versa. NOW GIVE A CUTE SMILE AND GET INTO THE DISCUSSIONS... :)
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
21 May 07
ignore all that stuff,
my grandmother always said, if you look for trouble it will find you.
Stay clear and don't take sides nor read that crap. I don't and I am all the happier for it.
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@byfaithonly (10698)
• United States
21 May 07
Ok sweetie don't know where in the world I've been but I can't imagine what on earth has happened to get this sort of reaction - I think your nice. (((((mssnow)))))
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@aprilgrl (4460)
• United States
21 May 07
Oh my what have you done now? Hmmm I read some of the discussion last night and found out about fifty gosh I was shocked but you have to know me I don't like to take sides and judge anyone but when it comes to an arguemnts I'll try to stay away or if someone hurts my feelings I may say something but then again I may not.I don't thnk you have done anything wrong as I feel that I know you and you are a sweet person and stay that way :) Your friend april is here if you need anything have a good day my friend.
@girish_aarthy (68)
• India
21 May 07
sweet sweet snow! talk to god mind will become calm.
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